She liked some of your statuses and pictures on fb and also says hello with smile to you when she sees you.
Would you interpret she is interested?
This is how it´s going with a guy I really like. The issue is that he didn´t contact me for 3 days and I´m starting to be nervous. Is it me who is supposed to initiate the conversation now?
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no opinion really, usually if that is the case for me, its because I always initiated conversation first and she is now used to the pattern of me contacting first. I can that is the case easily because if I don't send her the good morning texts she will complain hahaa
Is it likely that he lost interest in a meantime? We haven´t met since his last text, maybe I said something wrong.. If I would send him a text, would he think I´m desperate? How am I supposed to proceed? I want to show him I´m interested, but not needy
he could've either lost interest or he lost confidence/motivation into initiating first, probably feels as if he is getting nowhere with you. you won't look needy/desperate if you send him a text first for a few times. just keep it casual and it will be perfectly fine. if you are really interested in him though, why not go and ask him to a cup of coffee or something? see how he pertains to the idea.
it is possible that he is getting the feeling it is not going anywhere - he acts very nervous around me, he even avoided me once when I was hanging out with my friends, but smiles widely when I greet him.
hmm it sounds like he is losing his confidence, he may be getting a false hint that you are not interested in him so he doesn't wanna look like a fool and is slowly backing away. if you want him to pursue you then you gotta throw him an obvious bone, get his confidence back up and make him feel reassured into pursuing you.
thanks for your answer, i texted him, he immadiately texted back, but then he stopped. i know he is visiting his parents, so i don´t want to overthink :)
hahaa its all good. just go with the flow and your own gut, in my experience, girls tend to overthink a lot, guys do too, but girls beat that ratio by a little more lol.
he contacted me again and he mentioned some places in his home town.. so I wrote him that I´m subscribing his services as a guide and he just told me that he is not local anymore.. I´m getting crazy of this guy.. I´m trying so hard, why can´t he just help me
maybe you're trying too hard and he notices that and its turning him off?