All Questions

My ex boyfriend was looking at me (checking me out) when I visited my boyfriend at work

so, just wondering what the stare at me is suppose to mean, he often is busy and doesn't talk to me. my ex just watched me and a few days ago when I came to visit my bf. I thought he would look away but he didn't. it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

How many people is a good amount for a party?

What do you consider a good sized a party? What do you consider a small, large, and a too large party? Share your thoughts.

glamourgirl95

Xper 6 Age: 30

Society & Politics

Mistress broke promise and now is given me an ultimatum. Need advice without adding morals into the equation.

I just need some honest opinions with my situation. I have been in a relationship with my mistress for two and a half years. We are both married. Well her and husband are going through a divorce because they have unhappy...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Relationships

Should I tell my long distance boyfriend I kissed someone else?

I'm in a long distance relationship since the start of summer. I live in Scotland, he lives in Australia. The other night however, I was out and had a quite a bit to drink, one of my guy friends who likes me kissed me,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Breaking the touch barrier

Alright not gonna lie when it comes to being physical with a woman like touching her arm in conversation or giving her a high five anything that involves physical contact I always chicken out. My question is when a guy...

Hammer96

Xper 5 Age: 33

Do women like guys that have lean muscle or bulky muscle more?

I'm a swimmer and on the soccer team and I don't really have bulky muscles like some of my football and wrestling friends do.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls do you like a guy's forearms?

Like do you like a guy having big, strong forearms or do you not really care?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls actually like James Bond?

i mean, we are brought up to believe that James Bond is a ladies man, but somehow, I just can't sense it, I don't see why a woman would go crazy for him, I am not convinced real women would actually fall for someone like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are girls at bars so rude?

So, I went to the bars last weekend and I decided to approach this girl and she was rude to me. I think it was dumb of her to be rude because it's not like I told her anything disrespectful. Also, it's not like she was in...

joalto

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guy: are butt tattoos on girl sexy or no?

I'm not saying like a huge one that covers the whole area just like a small one like a butterfly or something

messagemebaby

Xper 6 Age: 33

How do I raise the XPER level?

How do I raise the XPER level on this website quickly? I have a lot of questions about relationships but I can't ask them unless I'm level 3. Help

irenedsv

Xper 3 Age: 29

He texted me "meow"... What does that mean?

so this guy and I were briefly friends with benefits and I caught feelings for him, and I let him know and we decided to be friends. to solidify it, I invited him out in a group thing our mutual friends were gonna have,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She thinks she's so out of my league and the rejection hurts

I got rejected by a girl who considers herself so much better looking than she actually is. As a result, when I'd normally have a shot with her (especially combined with my personality, which she loves), she thinks she's...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex girlfriend broke up with me, I started to ignore her. Now she sends mixed signals. Is she interested?

Me and my ex have a son together. We had been together about 3 years our son is 2. We have been on and off but the last time we started working things out everything seemed really good. This last time she broke up with me...

az706

Xper 5 Age: 42

How to tell a guy you don't want to date anymore?

Ok I went on a second date with this guy and I'm just not into him. he's fine but not someone I want to drop everything for to hang out with. How do I tell him I don't want to see him anymore?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are bunions a turn off? Would you break up with someone if you found out they had bunions?

Would you date someone with a bunion? Would you be disgusted or turned off if you found out your girlfriend/boyfriend had a bunion?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Do you consider it rude when friends are speaking another language around you?

You are hanging out or just nearby your friends and two or more of them start talking in a different language. do you think that is rude?

Robotic

Xper 3 Age: 38

When dating talkative girls, is it best to just "shut up" and listen?

I'm referring to outgoing personalities who aren't shy to speak their mind or make things happen. That's the type of girl I'm most attracted to(the opposite of passive aggressive), but at the same time I'm not sure about...

WoIIie

Guru Age: 36

Date cancelled THREE TIMES?

he had "legitimate reasons" he was sick he had to help his best friend out with an exam he had to do it again because they hadn't gone through all the concepts he rescheduled for Friday. but I don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend doesn't ever call, only texts....

Guys, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and he only texts, never calls. He never called at the beginning when we first started dating either, so it's not like he used to and then stopped...he just never...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriend keeps saying "maybe we should just break up" when we get into arguments?

For the last two months any time we get into an argument it always seems like he freaks out over the littlest things when I try talking calmly about it, and in some point in the argument he says "well maybe we should just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Shopping & Gifts

What do you think of Victoria's Secret Pink underwear sayings?

So I'm a guy and I think Victoria's Secret is hot (join the club right?) but anyway, so I've heard that the panties from the Pink franchise have sayings such as "Hot Stuff", "No Chance" and "Sleep With Me". I'm just...

hengyr

Xper 5 Age: 33

GIRLS: How attractive is a defined jawline?

I had a conversation with a female friend and she said that a guy with defined jawlines is equivalent to a girl with big natural boobs.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean if a guy says you look "bright"

I was watching TV with my friend. . And all of a sudden he said "You look bright today" lol . When I asked the meaning of it, he didn't elaborate. Anyone have any explanations ?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My girlfriend is using an app called "Meet Me"?

It's an app on Facebook, And it says stuff like "She Checked out GUY on MeetMe" and stuff, so I confronted her and asked her to delete it, She said she had and she doesn't even use it.. Although there are plenty of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Wide hips and love handles?

hey, so I'm having a problem with my body. I unfortunately do too have these horrible stupid love handles, without even having to put too tight jeans on. But I also have wide hips which make my back look really bigger...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when a a guy's heart beats really fast and hard around you?

i can always feel my bfs heart when we are together. if I hug him, kiss him, look at him, hold his hand, etc. hes older, and when he stares at me his heart beats fast what does that mean

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does anyone suffer from POCD or intrusive thoughts?

Anyone? I think I might, and to be frank, I'm scared. I read that people won't act on these thoughts. They are in no way fantasies or desires or predict the future. But I still feel like a bad person and I'm ashamed and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when you care about someone, deeply, and you don't know why?

This person has repeatedly hurt you, and they even rejected you before but you still want them. You want them to be happy and you would do anything to see them smile and you care about them unconditionally. You would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do men tease women they like?

I guess I'm asking men directly, or any women who think they have a special insight into the male psyche. This guy, who I have a major crush on, and who seems to also have a crush on me, told me that he gets a lot of joy...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is it a turn off for guys if girls have bigger hands than you?

Ok I'm so self conscious about my hands because I have man hands ewwwww :/ Well because I'm 5'10 so I guess its not that weird. OK my boyfriend and I hold hands he like 6 foot I love him :3 But is it a turn off if I have...

randomgirl1014

Xper 3 Age: 30

Shopping & Gifts

Is it right for your boyfriend to slam the door in your face?

Basically we woke up in a bad mood and he throws little digs at me, sometimes I let them slide and sometimes I make a point that it gets to me! He always says he's joking, but I believe behind every lie there's a bit of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: How often do you text women after the second date?

Last week I went on a date with this guy (dinner and movie) that I met through a friend. We had tones in common and even arranged to see each other again (his idea and I agreed) and made out in his car when he drove me...

prettypeach20

Xper 6 Age: 37

Girls: Girl offered me a ride in her car?

Basically there is a girl that I am quite into in my class at university. We worked in a group together and smiled at each other and laughed a fair bit during class group work. We are alone after class and I walked with...

Azza93

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why do I only attract guys I'm not interested in?

The only guys that are ever obviously interested in me are not appealing to me at all. Sorry in advance for how long this is, I just wanted to be clear :P Firstly, they tend to be "weirdos" for lack of a better...

greystreet

Xper 3 Age: 36