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She says she needs time for herself. What does this mean, & what can I do about it?

My girlfriend & I recently broke up. We have broken up several times before but this time it felt pretty serious. She says she needs time for herself. She says she's still madly in love with me. She also suffers from...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I told my crush I like him and now it's awkward..

I told my guy friend that I like him, and now it's awkward :/ We barely talk anymore even if we are hanging out with all the rest of our friends. Why? What should I do? Should I discuss the awkwardness with him?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to tell if a girl wants you to try harder?

I know girls are very confusing and can't be really understood. Right now I am trying my best to get even an inkling. How can I tell if a girl wants me to try harder or is straight up interested? Also how can I know if...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I yelled at my girlfriend, how to apologize?

Hello. Yesterday morning during my sleep, my girlfriend took my car without permission to visit her parents (40km from home, and she forgot to take her cellphone, impossible to call her). I hate when someone touch my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

She has a boyfriend but she is sending signals like crazy!!!

This girl I work with and I have had a close friends relationship for about 5 or 6 years. We've always flirted so much that I'm not sure if she's playing around anymore or if she's serious. She's kind of a tomboy so we...

josh977

Xper 5 Age: 38

She kissed another guy as a dare, but said her conscience was eating her? Should I be mad?

So my girlfriend has been great, we've been dating for a while, and I felt deeply in love (cheesy, yes) and damn, she's all I think about. She went out to party that I declined cause I didn't feel good that night, so I...

herkindaguy

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why do girls blow off good guys?

it seems like girls always just wanna be friends with the good guys, but anything more and they'd rather die than go on a date with them :( then they go for the bad boy that barely pays a lick of attention to them accept...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did my ex boyfriend text me on the holiday?

I dated my ex for a few months, we broke up on his terms after he lost his job and had a nervous breakdown saying he has his own issues. I suspected he went psycho. He seemed unsure about his decision when we broke up...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girlfriend can NEVER make decisions?!!?

We have been dating for like 2 months now and officially together for about a week, and since day one, I have made every decision about plans. That is to be expected at first cause I was the one asking her on dates, so I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We dated, moved quickly, then she freaked out and said she wasn't ready for dating and has commitment phobia?

So I met this girl online about 2 months ago where she actually pursued me from the beginning. We quickly began talking and went out for some first dates that went so incredibly well that we talked for hours. She had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, what do you like to talk about with girls? Besides sex.

Well me any my boyfriend have been off and on. But he is such a boring texter. And I ask questions and he always answer with a ya, no, idk, etc. & I hate that. But I never know what to talk about.. & I wanted to know...

acole

Xper 6 Age: 33

Is it true that many men hate feminists? Also prefer submissive women?

Ive noticed a lot of questions on here lately about that? Men even complaining about feminism saying it has done nothing for the world. Coming from my background, that seems really difficult to understand how someone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

OK ladies, this has been haunting me for years! Why do you scowl at a man in public after he smiles at you?

It seems like the more attractive you are the more likely you are to scowl in response to a smile. It makes me feel like I'm offending you. I stopped smiling at women in public so much because I hate getting dirty looks...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guys? Butterflies. Do you get them, and what does it mean when you don't anymore?

Do you get butterflies or some kind of physical feeling/reaction (heart-racing) when you see or are with someone that you like/love? Guys I'm interested if this is only a girly phenomenon. My girlfriends and I have...

jpeterman

Xper 5 Age: 42

Should I spill my heart out? If I don't do this I'm going to regret it!

My ex broke up with me as I had issues. He deeply loved me and despite being on the rebound with a girl he doesn't find attractive and has known for only four weeks I know he still feels something for me which is why he...

Oliviawinters

Xper 6 Age: 36

Fashion & Beauty

Why do girls dress provocatively?

Girls wear short shorts, and short skirts. Is this for attention? They say, 'Its hot outside.' Yet, I wear shorts that are to my knees, and I am fine, and I'm a guy. Also, they wear such things when it is cool. So,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Does a girl touching a guy's back have the same meaning?

I made friends with a bunch of girls this year. I noticed when I am sitting there they come over place their hand on my upper back, say hi etc and leave it there for a bit. Similarly if They are sitting with me and leave...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What does she want from me?

OK so I met a gorgeous girl who I hooked up with. Things were going fine but then she starts acting distant around me. I ask her what's up and she says she is not looking for a boyfriend at the moment. Weird thing was I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I miss her but she doesn't miss me

It's been a year since I had any contact with her. I don't want to go into specifics, but it felt like when I knew her, it was too short, like I ran out of time. Unfortunately, I think--no, I know--it's one-sided. It...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I tell if my long-distance boyfriend truly loves me?

I have a long-distance relationship, and I've asked in the past how to tell if a guy loves you, but it's always talking about looking at their actions, not words... well, in my relationship, all I have is words! how can I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do guys stare but don't smile?

since the start of this year, this popular guy always stared at me, that was when he was single, but he never really smiled and he never really spoke to me. in June I think it was he started going out with a girl and they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Send a Christmas card to a girl I like?

So Christmas is coming up, and I like this one girl. hung out a few times, talk to each other almost every day, and laugh and joke with each other a lot, flirt once in a while. anyway. since Christmas is coming up, and...

guyintherye

Xper 5 Age: 40

So I met a girl through a mutual friend?

We're both church goers. I'm a senior in high school, she's a junior. We go to different schools, and different churches, but I see her around, and I kinda have a crush on her, and I hear she has a crush on me too, but I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Why didn't he wave back?

There's a guy who works in a car shop on the corner which I walk past every day to get a coffee, it's a good 30 feet away from the sidewalk so I can't simply say hi. It's been going on for about 4 months now. Every day he...

Chamita

Xper 5 Age: 39

Other

What does it mean when a guy invites you to his dorm room?

This guy that I like invited me to dorm room to "study." When I got there, his room was spotless. His bed was made and everything was in its place. I sat on the floor to do my hw and even though he had a chair, he said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is She Flirting Or Just Being Nice?

There is a girl at work who I've known for probably three years. She was a receptionist but now works in admin. She is VERY gorgeous - the kind of gorgeous that woman and men will just say to each other, "wow, that is a...

pezzonovante88

Guru Age: 38

Is it okay to have an online boyfriend?

Well, I met this guy on MySpace before we've been friends for more than 6months and were chatting everyday video chat 2-3x a day he's consider as one of my close friends already but then we don't expect that it will...

Katyperry

Xper 6 Age: 37

If a guy hugs you and you have a jacket on and he puts his hands under your jacket but not under your shirt?

What does that mean? and he has a girlfriend

Anonymous

(30-35)