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My girlfriend misses her ex A LOT and he is was better than me. What should I do?

We are dating since February and we started getting closer on October 2014. They met each other in December (2013) and started dating in the summer. She broke up with him in September because she lost interest, but she...

tugazorean

Xper 6 Age: 27

Luxury is not the opposite of poverty, it is the opposite of vulgarity?

Some people think luxury is the opposite of poverty. It is not. It is the opposite of vulgarity.- Coco Chanel Its a very interesting quote about luxury and poverty and I kept thinking about it for a white now. What do you...

blackpeony

Xper 3 Age: 31

Do you think the song Original Sin by INXS is meant to be a racist song?

What were your reactions to hearing the song lyrics? p.s. I love INXS. I love INXS. RIP> Michael.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Why my butt is Not equal?

My butt the other side is a bit bigger than the other side is it normal? Or what should i do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you prefer blondes or brunettes?

So here's a video of real girls' experiences on being a blonde vs a brunette.... https://www.YouTube.com/embed/pTTZvCSJJwQ Now, a question for guys: Is it true that you don't take blondes as seriously as brunettes? And...

BumbleSuperBee

Editor Age: 28

How much courage does it take to ask a girl out?

Scenario 1: You're not sure she likes you back. Scenario 2: you know she likes you but you guys are not on speaking terms....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do my crush lie to me, guys need your advice please?

I told my crush I was going on a date with one of my buddy who is a guy friend only nothing more. I told my crush I wanted to talk to him later on the phone when I get back home from my date. I been texting him but he's...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Do you like when guys send you long paragraphs about anything? And guys do y'all like sending?

So, yesterday I was talking to my boyfriend. And he's in Wiscousin right now with his family, Im doing the normal thing... Which is missing him (duh) anyways I just asked him to send me a long paragraph about ___...

Idontkissandtell

Xper 6 Age: 27

Flirting

What should I do when I make eye contact with my crush?

Our eyes meet almost everytime. When this happens he keeps looking at me but I'm this shy type so i look away immediately. What exactly should do when our eyes meet?

sterah

Xper 6 Age: 27

Guys when you like someone, does your voice turn softer or deeper?

Because my crush's voice always turns softer, never deeper, although he uses his 'deep' voice around others to impress them, since he's got a nice deep voice.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boo. How do you feel being called that?

This question is for men but, I'm interested in what women think also. Men, if you had a girlfriend that referred to you as their "boo" instead of as their boyfriend. How would that make you feel? Think it's cute? Think...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you prefer smiles with teeth or no teeth?

Pretty self-explanatory. I used to like to smile with teeth more, but then I changed to no teeth. Which do you all like better?

MissBoopa

Xper 5 Age: 26

Is it true once you go black you never go back?

just wondering?

Neckbones13

Xper 6 Age: 44

How to respond to text "I really want to kiss you (:" ?

I'm 18 and just got in my first relationship, and it's incredibly awkward for me at times. I'm really shy and quiet most of the time, and the guy here knows that. I really do like him though. He always texts me sweet...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when your friends with benefits tells you he misses you when you come over?

I haven't seen him in like a month. He kept hugging me telling me he misses me a lot. He couldn't stop hugging me.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, do male teacher find their female students attractive?

I am currently in 12th grade at my school, and I was wondering if male teachers "check out" their female students, even if they're married or have a girlfriend. I ask this because I notice that sometimes, some of my male...

Kiwintrovert

Xper 4 Age: 29

Guys, do guys assume girls with a lot of tattoos are sluts?

I love my tattoos. I am really proud of them, but recently I can across a blog saying men assume girlswith alout of tattoos are sluts. I barely ever go to the bar but when I do I cover up my work because men flock to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What does it mean when a gay male blows a kiss at a female?

I don't know for sure if he is gay, but people I know claim he is. But in case he is gay, what does it mean when he blows a kiss at you or hugs you when you two aren't that acquainted? What if he puts his face centimeters...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

What does "bubba/buba" mean?

Usually my friends and the people I know calls me brother/brotha, man or dude etc. there are just few of friends that calls me this and those that do are guys, I never know what it means. Any definition?

KLTheErudite7229

Explorer Age: 32

Are back dimples hot?

I recently noticed how defined mine are when a guy pointed them out when I bent over. I don't understand why it would be good or bad. Explain?

PastelKisses

Xper 5 Age: 26

Society & Politics

Is my (fwb) friend with benefits too clingy?

We're really communicative and affectionate, but if I dont show my friend with benefits constant attention and affection at times, I'm accused of "pushing away" or "being too distant." Same if I dont feel like holding...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend can't forgive himself, what do I do? Please help?

My boyfriend cheated on me a while back. While it really hurt me, I let it go and forgave him for it. I've forgiven him and want to move forward with our relationship, he can't seem to forgive himself. He hates himself...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it possible for a guy to change his player ways for you?

I don't know what to do I don't know whether I should stay or leave. My boyfriend is very well aware that I know he's a player. We even talked about the girls and he said "I was his girl and them are hoes" he told me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I want to wait until marriage, is that so wrong?

Yesterday I was out with my friends who all already had sex with their boyfriends/ex-boyfriends/randoms. So me and this other girl (let's call her Jenny for simplicity's sake) are the only people who have not. Every time...

jojoanna

Xper 5 Age: 29

2 math questions help please?

1. Suppose you work for a large coffee distributor that has a secret coffee blend it sells to local stores. You mix the Gualtemala Antigua blend with the Organic Free Trade blend, but always in the same proportion....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Soldiers: Did you get laid during BCT or AIT?

Where there a lot of opportunities to get laid?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My gf is non-white but I don't want mixed race children?

If you were non-white and your bf was white, would you be OK if he asked you to use a white woman's egg and then be a surrogate, so that the kid comes out pure white? She is Asian and says she prefered white men, so she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Girls, do girls like getting hit on at a bar?

Just curious do girls hate or like when guys come up to them at a bar or club

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do white girls from US of America prefer black and hispanic guys over their own race? what's wrong with white guys?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you comfort a crying man?

This question may seem completely odd to you. But the only men that I've seen cry was a single friend of mine. I'm one of those people that must comfort another person when I see them upset, but I don't know how to do it...

RationalLioness

Guru Age: 35

Girls: How often do you notice men checking out your feet? What are your thoughts? Guys: Any of you do it?

So yeah, I particularly like when women wear ballet flats and toe cleavage shows. I wonder why most don't wear socks in general. Is this weird, and would you guys be ok dating someone who is into feet? Guys, have you ever...

hardcoeur

Xper 5 Age: 33

How do men handle breakups?

Why is it that men in my experience seems to handle breakups better? They seem to move on faster or start flirting with girls just right after a breakup. How do men act when they get sad? Personally I will be sad for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why's he so curious about my love life?

He only talks to me about it... Nothing else. He questions me on whether or not I think certain guys are attractive, how my dating life is going, whether or not I have a date coming up etc.

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you cry over someone, does that mean you're in love?

Anonymous

(30-35)