I just found out that my friends with benefits is seeing this girl seriously because they went out of town this weekend. I told him 2 weeks ago that I didn't want him calling me anymore and he was fine with that. Now it appears that he's seeing this girl. I am mad, hurt, betrayed and my ego is bruised. He told me that he didn't want a relationship but now he's seeing this girl. I've seen the girl and we both are attractive ladies; she doesn't stay in our state. I'm confused as why he would chose her over me and she is long distance. I am so hurt. I know I shouldn't be looking on their social media page but I can't help it
My friends with benefits chose another girl over me! Whyyyy?
What Guys Said 10
You're hurt because you were a throw-away that got thrown away?
That's dumb. Really dumb.6
Prob related to something about your personality if you think friends with benefits means legit relationship. and you both look the same.1
Wtf? He dumped you because you were acting like a girlfriend (a clingy, bitchy one at that) in stead of a fuck buddy. Wow! Seriously? I told him I didn't want him talking to her anymore? No wonder he ran. Hahaha! Fix your shit or it will keep happening.0
fwb. you are fucked haha. you got. you're no serious thing thats it and I think you being jealous will lead you falling in love to him. be carefull2
Girl, Men needs a serious relationship and we have standard for our "Wife Material".So sorry, start looking for a new FWB.0
If you're just "friends with benefits" it should be obvious he's not that into you. You're just someone to bang.1
Women friendzone, men fuckzone.
Sounds like you're fuckzone material, no offense.3
What Girls Said 6
With Friends with benefits, there is never any guarantee what is going to happen, or how it will end up. And although he told you he didn't want a serious relationship with you, apparently he found someone who he had More chemistry with, no matter how long or short the distance.
Lick your wounds and move on. I know it feels as though you got not only slapped in your butt, but in your face as well, but learn from this valuable lesson that it's Not always a 'Benefit,' but a chance you take when you get yourself involved in this 'page' of This chapter.xx0
I know this is hard to accept but you clearly just didn't appeal to him in a serious way. You were his fuck buddy. That's it. He didn't feel anything more for you. This girl on the other hand is someone who he feels romantically attracted to. With you it was all physical, with her it's probably emotional and physical. If you two had a friends with benefits situation then it's definitely not his fault for you being hurt. You honestly only have yourself to blame. You are not supposed to be friends with benefits with someone who you are romantically attracted to. This is like, the essence of a friends with benefits arrangement.0
Because you were friends with benefits. Not in a relationship. If you wanted to be in a relationship with him you should have told him.
What do you think friends with benefits are? They're definitely not people who are in a committed relationship.1
You have got to be kidding me.
You are a friends with benefits. That's just a nice way of saying you're his "cum-bucket ho".
He does not trust/take you seriously or even finds you all that great.1
Sounds like you like him. Think about it carefully, you could tell him next time how you really feel or whats going on
(Please answer my question)
Thanks take care0
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