My Girlfriend chooses her friends over me. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

Okay this might sound desperate, but most guys face it. I had half day at college and I and my girlfriend were free after the college timings. No one had any plans so I asked her to hang out with me and go to a movie.

Then when we were leaving my girlfriend's friends popped up and told her to go to someone's house and listen to music and lie around (she tells me what happens there all the time). I wanted to have some quality romantic time with her and she knew it, yet she just chose her friends over me. She then comes and apologises the whole time.

I am pissed af, but I know she loves me. If I try to talk to her about this she comes up with the same stuff that her friends will be angry on her, but she is blind that I sacrifice so much of my bro time to be with her. Please help me.

I would break up with her

I wouldn't break up with her

[Anonymous]

If she's "blind to the sacrifices" you're making then just stop MAKING them. If she doesn't appreciate the gesture and/or won't return in kind, then don't keep blowing off your guy time. Take time and enjoy your life, so you don't feel like it's a double standard. That doesn't mean you have to break up with her, or get pissed with her. It just means you're trying to put less pressure on the relationship and still be happy.

[notsodificult]

Quit whining you give it to much importance. do your bro thing.. Eventually she will she how lame her friend thing is and make better choices

[SngBirdy]

Thats something you work on and talk about. Thats nothing you just break up over lmao

[Anonymous]

I chose the first option and it's because if you are thinking about it, she's already lost you.

[Anonymous]

If she can't make Time for you.. then you aren't her first priority and that means you should leave her