My girlfriend chooses her friends over me? Should it bother me like it is bothering me right now?

[Soltice]

Alright, so I've been talking to this girl, we've been talking for 3 months now. Everytime I want to spend time with her I have to ask her if I can spend time with her. Sometimes she does but most of the times she chooses her friends over me and it really bothers me. Everytime I am the one who searched for her (I'm always looking for her, I always call her, text her, etc.) She strangely does. Anyways what should I do? I'm really in love with her and I don't wanna change her for nothing in this world right now. Help?

[inquisitiveemt]

Woah... woah... woah... u should be living ur life right now boo. You're not even 18 and ur beating ur brains out over a girl. She's obviously placing her friends above u bc that's where she feels they should b placed. I know I sound like a bitch right now. I'm not trying to I just want u to realize that there are so many things u should be doing at ur age. Being totally enthralled in a girl isn't one of them. Teens and 20s are for experimenting (girls, friends, partying) and for trial & error to find out ur likes and dislikes. These r the times when u learn coping mechanisms for later in life. Tying urself down now will cause problems in ur future. Mostly hatred and resentment toward urself for not exploring life.
Live it up now while u can. There'll b enough time to settle down when ur in ur 30s
Best of luck to u Hun
Luv
Rosie

[InquisitiveMale]

You do want to change her... that's why you came to us.

One of the big lessons in life is learning that even if you want to, you cannot change people. They will grow and change themselves or not at all.

There is nothing that can be done for your situation. If you cannot handle the proverbial backseat, then you're in the wrong relationship with the wrong person.

[inquisitiveemt]

Some people need to introduce & recite the serenity prayer on a daily basis.