Is it wrong that my Girlfriend gives her best friends more attention than me?

[Aar0n83]

is it wrong that my Girlfriend gives her best friends more attention than me?

1. like when I call her & we would be talking but then she would hang up on me.. But when I call her back she would say o.. sorry my bff call me ..

2. if I'm on a date with her she would be texting her BFF & she would be tagging her and not me into her statuses on FB

at the place I took her out to.

3. she has her BFF around all the time .. we never get any one on one alone time..

4. she invites her to Christmas party's with her family but not me.

( and I think she only using me for my money.. )

1. she will only call me when she wants something or she will butter me up to buy her a $1000 dollar diamond 10kwhite gold ring and I did .. I feel stupid cause now she treats me like crap with no respect

i don't know .. it sux to love some one that douse not love you back but she tells me she douse but then she treats me really bad I feel like the Girl in this relationship ... its sad but True.

anyways .. that's it for now,.

[Ashley8282]

Id say that majority of the time best friends comes first because they have always been there and relationships comes and go.

But it also depends on how serious your relationship is.

If you're buying her 1000$ rings as a gift holysh*t haha

I always make friends and relationships equal (but I've been for 3 years)

You should talk to her and tell her that you feel she is pushing you to the side and chosing her bff over you. That you understand they are best friends but you want to feel as important to her as her bff does. Give examples

[Aar0n83]

when I try to talk to her about all this stuff .. she pushes me away or tells me that I am insecure...

[lilagirl]

She is not treating you right. Having a bff is one thing but maybe she should be with her..not you.

[Aar0n83]

that's what I told her last night when I left her house well she was on the phone with her bff all night long...

[lilagirl]

You are not in the wrong here. She is not treating you right. Find someone who will want to spend time with you and won't criticize.

[gonyr]

If you feel that way about her than don't be with her. Plain and simple Megan if you turn out to be wrong you can't be with a girl you feel like that about

[Aar0n83]

ya thinking about it thanks for your comment

[gonyr]

Autocorrect kinda messed it up but ou got the drift