My girlfriend broke up with me, I miss her so much and really want her back!?
What Girls Said 3
Don't text her. Once you realize you can find someone else and how awesome you are. It'll get better. Don't contact her, it'll just annoy her.
honestly ur relationship doesn't sound healthy and u were possessive and jealous and no girl likes that and u were rude to her and have said things that u can't take back im sorry that ur sorry not but the relationship doesn't sound like it was good for her and now its not for u and its over u should just leave it that way im sorry but i dont think she's going to come back to u and she shouldn't in my opinion and it really doesn't even look like it would work out anyway.
honestly i think you're very toxic for her.. it's not a good idea to get back with her. you should figure yourself out. you really need to work on your communication and jealousy and accusing. that is straight up NOT ok. you truly need time for yourself, and i think you should move on. this being your first relationship, this was a learning experience for you. thats not how you treat somebody that you love or care for. i'm sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear, but i think you needed to. don't talk to her anymore, and close all contact. good luck buddy
What Guys Said 2
You need to contact her again (preferably in person) and show her that you realize the things you did wrong last time, that she's extremely important to you and it's been hard without her, and that you're going to work to improve on those things you did wrong. If you're sincere in all that she might take you back, but I'd make damn sure you do things differently because a third chance is pretty unlikely.
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Haha, well the things you do when you do not think rationally. I had a similar experience. I would say to remain no contact and during that time work on improving yourself. Look at things that she maybe saw as negatives and look at yourself and see if you are willing to compromise and are willing to admit that you do certain things and take the actions to start working on your weaknesses. These type of flimsy relationships are usually based more on infatuation and not real love. Everything is all about emotions instead of reason and decisions. I know it is hard and I can both empathize and sympathize with you. And what really is best is to one day at a time focus more on others and less about you and your poor me feelings. Have fun enjoy your other friends and do your best to cope. IF you have to bawl your eyes out, go ahead holding things in never seems to benefit anyway. Good Luck man and like I said try to avoid irrational emotional thinking as much as possible
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