Okay Guys, Is my ex waiting for me to call him? Or Wait for him to Call me?

[Anonymous]

So me and my ex broke up over a month ago (we dated 2+ years). He has initiated it, because we were arguing so much our love kind of faded and well we also don't see each other much(very strict family/plus goes to school out of state) but basically we argued. When he broke up with me he would still call, and I would reply to text. Last week, I had not replied to his calls and after two days I sent him a text(it was about music, not about us) and well he replied with "hmmm now you can say hello" If got me mad because he broke up with me, and I would just feel that I was needy if I called or I assume he would think I wanted to get back. Or worse be just friends( which is something I cannot do) I do want him back. But am I wrong to be waiting for him to initiate the calls? Since he initiated the break up. After his "hmm " text I asked him when he wanted his stuff back, no reply then. So I didn't call or text for 2 days. Yesterday, I finally asked if he wanted to talk, he replied, and well he said that I could call him or text him later, since he was at a family gathering. We did not talk, I never called and he never called. So what now? Call him, or just move on and wait for whenever he wants to call/text me? I

[BaronScrewtape]

Move on. He initiated the breakup so he needs to be the one to reach across that rift to reconcile with you. You do yourself no favors waiting around for him to make a decision, either. If he comes around before you find someone you really care about and he convinces you he will work on a relationship with you, fine. But do not leave a healthy, new relationship for him as he may just flake out on you again, leaving you with nothing yet again.

Just move on and live your life. Take him at his word that it is over, at least until he explicitly says otherwise. And do not contact him, as doing so will keep your pain fresh so it does not heal.

Good luck with this.

[VeraVzla22]

Don't call him cause you'd sound needy yep, is better feel loved in return and no force people to love you. If he broke up then move on, isn't easy, hurts yep, but you'll find a better person surely. If he wanna you back he'll call or text, he won't doubt then or wait too much. If he don't call or anything then better leave things like that till he decide but then try to know other new people. Better wait till he call you or text you.