As the question says, what are the signs someone is actually still interested after a breakup rather than just attention seeking?
Signs someone still likes you after a breakup vs attention seeking?
What Girls Said 2
When me and my ex broke up and it was really ugly but we both still had feelings for each other, I would catch him staring, or he was asking mutual friends about me and whether I'm seeing anyone and stuff. At the same time there was also a lot of negative signs, he tried his hardest to assure everyone I'm much sadder over the break up, that he doesn't care about me at all and he did it to the point that was so exaggerated that it was obvious that he has some kind of a problem. As I said I sometimes caught him staring, but he would never actually speak to me, if anything he would ignore me. He also started seeing some other girl and he brought her with him everywhere that he knew I would be, he made out with her in front of me in a very obvious way etc., even though otherwise they had no chemistry or anything. There were moments when I was sure that I'm just reading the signals wrong and he actually is totally over me and is not just trying to hurt me or make me jealous, but after 2 months of this kind of hateful behaviour, he literally showed up at my door one night, drunk, saying that he misses me.
But this is just from my experience, I think it really depends on a situation and your relationship. My ex for example was an ignorant, immature asshole, I'm sure many people would handle the situation differently.
(Also I know I was describing male behaviour here, but I think girls would do pretty much the same, like try to make you jealous just to see what your reaction is, rather than actually show affection. but i think it REALLY depends on a situation and what kind of break up it was)
-also: i hate to be annoying, but would you mind checking my question: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1238908-did-he-just-use-me-for-sex-or-does-he-actually-like-me-why-is-he0
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They are still nice to you, they don't bring up what happened between you even if you are nasty to them they are still caring and dont take what you say to serious they still do things for you are willing to still meet up and be friends. They are happy not bitter towards you. Always ask how you are doing are concerned about your wellbeing the list goes on its pretty hard to miss the signs if iam honest haha0
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