Regardless of whether you actually did or did not agree to a second chance, did your exes change their minds and how long did it take?
Did your ex ever come back?
Honestly by the time I decided to break it off with them, it didn't matter if they wanted to come back at all. I take relationships seriously. If I break up with someone it was not over something minor, but over something that could not be repaired.
To answer your question, they all came back some within days others a week.
One wouldn't stop bugging to take her back for almost a year !
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In my case I've done both. They broke up with me and I broke up with them and a lot of the time they usually come back. Usually I don't care. We broke up for a reason. So no I rather NOT get back together. If a girl broke up with me, well tough, she made that choice, she has to live with it.
Mine did, it was because of a situation with our parents and so he thought it would be better to just stay friends, 2days later he realized how much he loved me and how much he needed me that he wanted to get back together :)
Through it all, I was heartbroken so of course I agreed :)
Still together and in 3days it'll be our 5month anniversary :)
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It was kind of a mutual break up, but he was the one to actually do it before I had the chance to. After about a week or so, I tried to talk to him again to no avail. About three months later, when he realized I was pretty much over him and much happier, he started trying to come back. He tried several times after that.
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i broke up with every single one and they all came begging to come back saying they were so in love and all that crap...i don't know if any changed there minds I just know that they left me alone because I don't do second chances...you f*** up once and that's it
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Yes we were together for 3 years and I walked away. I couldn't take anymore. After being apart for 2 years and constantly fighting with one another and blaming one another we finally came to civil terms and began talking again and got back together. Yes it happens. The old myth is 'if you love something let it go and if it was yours it will come back'... so basically true love never dies... and if you two were meant to be... it will happen... have patience... give it time and stick with it...
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my ex came back to me four months later and then six or seven months later. At the four month mark I said I couldn't - that things were different (they were). At the six or seven month mark I was with the man who would eventually become my husband :)
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I got broke up with. About 4 months later (last week, actually) she came back. I love her, but there is no way in hell she deserves to get together with me again. What she did was just wrong.
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its been five years since we broke up and we can't seem to part. we have a great friendship. I'm in love with him and I think he's falling back in love with me. when things are broken I feel they can be mended with time, effort, love, honesty and friendship. time heals all wounds and love has completely healed mine (:
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he broke up with me and later after 3 months he asked me bak...he sed he missed me and regretted it, and I missed him 2...and loved him so much...so we got bak 2gether. but now we've broken up again...bt it did last for another 3 months be4 we broke up :) were frnds now.
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I broke up with my current boyfriend last summer (we were over 1 1/2 years into the relationship). About 6 months later, he came back to me.
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I broke up with him... and brought him back 4 months later. We broke up again. lol And had sex once more after the last time. That is all.
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Still waiting! I don't somehow think its going to happen - it's been over 7 months. He did however contact me a couple of weeks ago after no contact for months taliking about some bullsh*t!
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well...it was only a day so I don't know if it really counts...but my boyfriend broke up with me and then the next day he called me and said that he made the biggest mistake of his life...
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yeah he broke up with me for someone else and is still with her to this day but came back in contact with me after a year then I closed all contact because I realised how much off a douchh bag he is
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i broke up with my last boyfriend and he kept trying to come back for a 2nd chance. it didn't happen.
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Yes he broke up with me. Then didn't talk to me for two weeks, then I broke up with him then didn't talk to me for two months then came back. Now I broke up with him again
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He broke up with me and then he regretted his decision 3 weeks later. We only lasted a week until he had doubts again and ended it. We were together 3 years and he hasn't contacted me since the break up. He has depression too.
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I voted A because it has happened twice but I was once broken up with a he came back. It usually takes 2 -7 days before they came back to me =]
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He came back 3 times. But he won't come back a forth time. Because simply his feelings changed, and I have my pride :-\
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We broke up since more then 3 years ago and she never came back :-(
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He broke it off after 1 year. I HOPE he realizes he made a big mistake!
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we talked but he hates me now I hurt every day I think about him
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he came back...it took like 3 months
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