My ex asked if I still had feelings for him?

The other day I messaged my ex about a question I had about a movie. It had been a few months since we'd last talked but I wanted to try to start a conversation with him to see if maybe we could be friends again. Then he asked if I still liked him. He said he was just curious, but then he also said that there were things about me that he missed. I don't understand why he would still have feelings for me because he left me. We only dated for 2 month but we've had feelings for each other (on and off) for about 4 years. The reason I want to know is because me and him have a lot of mutual friends and I'm worried about drama starting in our "group" I guess you could say. I honestly don't know how I feel about him. I know I kinda still like him but on the other hand I feel like it would be pointless to get back together with him. Part of me has wondered if I'm actually in love with him but I guess I'm kinda scared to say that for fear of being wrong. It's kinda like I know I still have feelings for him, I just also hate the fact that they are there. If you have any idea how to answer this question I'd really appreciate it! Thanks!


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  • The reason nobody answers your question is because... This is not a question. You don't ask anything.. you just show us you're worried. Try talking to other guys and see if you're ready to move on. If not, you clearly still have feeling for your ex.

  • Of course the feelings are there! Just because you end things doesn't mean you immediately stop having emotions


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