i dated a guy for 2 years. and we had a sudden break up. I'm currently dating another guy, for about a month now. I really like my new boyfriend, but thoughts of my old boyfriend are still around. and its really hard because my ex still texts me and gives me attention. its been about a year since we have broken up. he knows I have a new boyfriend but he still tries to get back with me. I'm the one who broke off the relationship to begin with. I'm not sure what to do. he was my first love. and he wants to get back together. but my new boyfriend and I get along great. I'm not sure what to do about this.