Most Helpful Guy
People have to find themselves. Even if that means moving into other relationships. If you can't understand that, then you really don't love him.
Instead of analyzing him though, I think you should be analyzing your self. A healthy individual would have recognized this wasn't the right time to be with this person. There's something going on with you
Most Helpful Girl
Same happened with my ex. He found a new girlfriend shorty afterwards. I think some people are just so full of crap and we are idiots to fall for it. If he wanted you, you would be his motivation, not something that stops him from getting better. I am just so sick of pathetic people who have to make out reasons for dumping us just so they don't seem like a horrible person. Spare me the "I need to figure out my life" bullshit and gather the fucking balls to say it that you got bored with me because you are a fucked up person who wants to stick his little ballsless cock into some immature slut with whom you can feel more worthy. People have problem admitting that someone is actually better then them. There are those who get motivated to become better, and those who run away. Your boyfriend is a runner. Leave him be.