I dated a gorgeous woman last year. But, I ended things because I thought she was too much of a princess for me. She is not a bad person at all. I just think that because of her background (she grew upper middle class while I was lower middle class) and her very above average looks, she has certain expectations from men.
I tried to end things as humanely as possible, in person and over dinner.
I've also tried to remain amicable as we share a mutual friend and sometimes run into each other. Even though she has pulled some silly stunts like show up to places where I am with dates or flirting with guys in front of me, I've maintained the high ground throughout.
I don't think this is a woman who is used to getting dumped. When we started dating, she told me that she was the one who almost always breaks up with guys (not a smart thing to tell someone at the start of a relationship, in my opinion). She also told me that all her three serious exes keep in touch with her (presumably to try to get her back). I've also heard a similar thing from another ex. It is precisely because I don't want to be like these other exes that I never keep in touch with my own exes.
Anyway, some friends think my ex wants to get back with me and that her antics are proof of that. However, I am not sure if this is the case. Perhpas it is simply that she can't believe someone dumped her and wants to lure me back so she can hurt me later.
Do most women, especially very attractive women, usually the ones who are accustomed to doing the dumping? Do they also expect the exes to keep in touch and/or keep in touch regardless of who does the dumping
If women are the ones who do most of the dumping, is it a total shock when a guy does and does not crawl back? Is this especially true when the woman involved is gorgeous? I mean my ex is a women who gets hit on all the time. Yet, she pull
I tried to end things as humanely as possible, in person and over dinner.
I've also tried to remain amicable as we share a mutual friend and sometimes run into each other. Even though she has pulled some silly stunts like show up to places where I am with dates or flirting with guys in front of me, I've maintained the high ground throughout.
I don't think this is a woman who is used to getting dumped. When we started dating, she told me that she was the one who almost always breaks up with guys (not a smart thing to tell someone at the start of a relationship, in my opinion). She also told me that all her three serious exes keep in touch with her (presumably to try to get her back). I've also heard a similar thing from another ex. It is precisely because I don't want to be like these other exes that I never keep in touch with my own exes.
Anyway, some friends think my ex wants to get back with me and that her antics are proof of that. However, I am not sure if this is the case. Perhpas it is simply that she can't believe someone dumped her and wants to lure me back so she can hurt me later.
Do most women, especially very attractive women, usually the ones who are accustomed to doing the dumping? Do they also expect the exes to keep in touch and/or keep in touch regardless of who does the dumping
If women are the ones who do most of the dumping, is it a total shock when a guy does and does not crawl back? Is this especially true when the woman involved is gorgeous? I mean my ex is a women who gets hit on all the time. Yet, she pull
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