My ex broke up with me a month ago.. moved out of my house 4 months ago. I had to threaten to call the cops on him to pick up his belongings that were in my storage unit that 'I' paid for after he moved out. Note: I had none of my belongings in the storage unit, it was mine with his belongings inside. He's been getting mail here for the past month in a half. I've tried contacting him. I sent him his mail the first time to his mother. I texted him and told him to come pick up his mail or do I need to send it to his mother again so he doesn't have to see me. He said, "No. I want to say hi." Well, he never showed. A week later, I told him his mail was on the table outside on the patio, that I wouldn't be home, he can grab it and not see me. He never picked it up. I told him again just yesterday (these are pretty important paperwork) and he basically said "I have nothing. No home, no nothing. Sorry my life is a mess." I have the choice of returning to sender, but to be quite honest, I'm not entirely sure why someone would not come pick up their mail, especially when it is important? It boggles my mind that someone would just things like this go. (Note - We were together for 2 years. When we first broke up, he left a lot of his stuff at my place and ended up coming back after a month in a half)
Most Helpful Guy
he's playing to "woe is me" card. just stick it back in the post and return to sender. Its no longer your problem.
He's counting on your sympathy so that you will see him again1
Most Helpful Girl
Send it to mom and then take a trip to the post office and put his Mother's Address as his New Address so you can move on and finally end this madness.
It's Obvious he is not coming over and if he told you "I have nothing. No home, no nothing. Sorry my life is a mess." He is either tugging on your heart strings like he probably did before or really is a... mess.
Don't put yourself through what looks like a full circle problem pattern again here, dear. It sounds like you meant business this time so stick to your guns, Annie get your gun and tell him you are your own sheriff now and get on his horse and collect his own mail now at mom's... he had his chance with any "Hi" or even romance and you are not his pony express now.
Good luck. xx1