I can feel myself slowly drifting away from my boyfriend. Should I try to fix our relationship or just end it all together?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Follow you heart. Although I despise cliches, I think this one is extremely applicable in your situation. Romantic relationships are by definition about what your heart is telling you. Think about this and be honest with yourself. Here are some questions that might help you:
    - Do you think this is a temporary phase?
    - Is it hormones or stress?
    - Did something happened that caused you to distance yourself from him?
    - Are you attracted to him the same way you used to before?
    - Do you catch yourself thinking about him (HIM, not your relationship with him)?
    - Do you see the two of you together in a year, or so?
    - Does the thought of breaking up feel kind of good, or better to you?

    This is my opinion. I wish you the best. : )

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  • I was like you before. But I stayed hoping that we will be able to fix it. But I never really told him on what I feel hoping he will realize it. Until when I started becoming so cold to him, I thought it was the best thing to do so that I will have reasons to leave him. He also felt the same because of my coldness to him but he never told me either until when he's so fed up and ended up our relationship. He told me everything after few weeks but its too late for me to save our relationship. I was hurt so bad because I so love him so much and now I regret everything I did. So I guess you should talk it out with him. Let him know what you really feel and understand his side as well. Try to fix it if you can or just respect his decision if he thinks he needs time to think. Eventually he will realize everything even you. So Girl, save your heart before its too late. You will regret it before you know it. :)

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  • well its depends why are you drifting away.. if you are not attracted anymore i don't think you can be anymore, if always arguing its also not healthy and it will get better and go back to same place, if you don't see your future with him also there is nothing to do.. its all depend on the reason if its just you, you might need time to yourself to clear up your mind and figure out what you really want and if he is the best fit for your future plans.. when it comes to happiness in relationships you must be selfish to your own happiness.. its important to make someone happy, but its more important to make yourself happy.. you didn't give enough info about why you drifting away i would like to give you my opinion but from your question best thing to do is to know what makes YOU happy.. best of luck

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  • If you feel like there's a chance, or that he's worth trying to work things out. then sure. But if it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out. At least you tried.

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  • just end it as if you try to resurrect it it will only slide into decline again so get out and end the pain now.

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  • You should either fix it or leave... but don't cheat

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  • What's it worth to you?

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  • yes. you should.

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