How do you make a guy regret not committing to you? He acted like my boyfriend but wouldn't make it official?

[lnds1994]

[encourageenchanted]

You don't, that's just wasted energy but what you do is get on and live your life and let him see you're not crumbling without him, it's not about making him regret, he made his choice make yours to move on, keep your heart warm and your feet firmly planted on the ground don't lose your head or heart over someone who cannot or who is not willing to give you what you want or deserve.

[Cmasterson]

Usually it's him and he has problems with commitment... don't feel less, and don't give more than you get.

[CykaBlyat]

All I can say is good job to him.
Why should you make him regret his decision if it's his choice? There's nothing wrong with choosing not to date someone..

[lnds1994]

this went on for over 7 months he kept saying he would think about it he really liked me and all this stuff. But he would never commit and broke my heart.

[CykaBlyat]

And he thought about it and didn't like you, would you rather him not dating you or him dating you and not actually liking you?

[lnds1994]

What I don't understand is if he didn't like me why did he keep it up? why did he say all these things? We recently just hangout and i lost my Virginty to him and he won't commit after he said all these things told me he liked me and missed me and begged me to come over.

[CykaBlyat]

He can like you but maybe he thinks about dating differently to you

[lnds1994]

His excuse was he likes being alone it was all he knew and what he was use too? I just don;t understand how a guy can do all this and act like he doesn't care he said he was sorry but that was it. I just want him to Realize what he could of had if he just gave me a chance I tried so hard.

[CykaBlyat]

Some people like being alone and you like being in a relationship; people are different.
He can regret it but what stops him from asking you out? Nothing

[OlderAndWiser]

Important lesson: you can't make a guy feel anything.

[psychomonkey]

It was his choice whether or not to commit and your choice to wait for him to commit so you really aren't doing any justice.

[pervertedjester]

Workout and flirt with other guys.

[Anonymous]

Not official! What that mean?

[lnds1994]

He won't commit to me he won't call me his girlfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

What's the reason?

[Opinion Owner]

You lost your virginity to him umm I think the best thing you can do is move on I think he's careless so you will hurt your self more focus on your life it's better

[lnds1994]

He said he doesn't do relationships or he will say you know how I feel about relationships and he acts like my boyfriend and does all the stuff a boyfriend would do but he wouldn't commit. I just want him to realize.

[lnds1994]

He even gets jealous but won't commit i like him a lot I'm like heartbroken