I denied a hook up now he actually wants a relationship and is apologizing is this typical?

[myabe123]

[Luopio27]

Wanting sex is just craving for intimate human touch, that feels good. Emotional shocks and fears of rejection, drama and deeper feelings getting mixed up and/changing, is normal.


He was honist, asked for sex without any strings attached. That is better than someone else you might like, leading you on into a relationship just to get sex. Many hookups as well as friends with benifits deals evolve into normal relationships.


It is understandable to me thst he first asked for sex, then asked for a relationship. My logic is based on what most cultures dont have in common. It is not a tradition to ask for sex when you meet someone single that you find atractive. Direct questions like want to go see a movie in the theaters is normal but when it comes down to asking soneone for sex, it takes real good people skills to get it done professionally without drama, shame, fear, shock and so on.


You should thank hin for his coursge to be honist, then make it clear whatever your feelings are now. Listen to your heart before you let him go.

[Sparkie460]

So first he wanted to hook up with you and you denied him. Then he comes back and says he really wants a relationship with you? It sounds like he will tell you anything that you want to hear just to get in your pants. That is someone that you want to avoid. I see a bunch of red flags with him, you should too

[Anonymous]

I think that he is trying for the long way round to get in your pants.

[boggboss]

No justvsounds like saying what u want to hear to get what he wants

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Beware some people fake it until they make it.

[MementoMori777]

he really thinks you are stupid to fall for it after asking for a hookup? 🤦‍♂️

[myabe123]

I blocked him on social media too then he reached out on the only platform I didn’t block him on. Well thanks for the help from all the guys on here.

[MementoMori777]

You got that dude obsessed, what you tell him? 😂

[myabe123]

Hey so my coworkers asked for the tea this morning and I haven’t been in the office for a while but they said any guy horny enough to fuck a pillow is a hard pass. I’m not a prostitute contrary to the rumors and I don’t really have time for something like this

[MementoMori777]

Damn that sucks, women can't live in peace nowadays without someone trying to ruin their name, either ways you sound sassy, like you bite when they cross you, they can't make you something you're not, just do you

[myabe123]

I know. It sucks im 27 and a spinster

[myabe123]

But then he apologized and said I really like talking to you after I blocked his number r

[MementoMori777]

Ey come on don't talk like that, that spinster stuff is bullshit, you ain't never too old to marry, it's messed up that they falsely gave you that reputation, you know what you need, a fresh start, at some point think of getting a fresh start, new job, new area.

[MementoMori777]

No lie that mf can go fuck his pillows

[Paul_in_Indy]

Is it typical for a guy to say whatever it takes to get sex? Yes.

[RealMarek]

It’s typical that some guys will say anything to get sex. I suspect he really just wants a hook-up.

[8InchesChris]

Yes he just wants to still have sex with you, just its going to take some time. Depends what type of work is he. Is he a fuck boy or is he actually lovely bloke you need to read through the lines and act like a detective hun. Good luck

[NathanDavis]

you're old enough to know better...

[Summeroflove]

Well. He’s probably a man whore… if someone just wants to sleep with you. Drop them like a bad habit

[Gent207-2]

Hoist the red flag and RUN
You couldn't find a bigger red flag

[EaterPeter]

When we want you we want you. If you are willing ro sell yourself short we get a cheap deal when you are not we might be in for long haul

[Bklynbadboy12]

What do you mean you didn't hook up with so now he wants s relationship

[Nahid1707]

Use your brain girl, red flags there.

[eagle1951]

not really. kind of weird actually

[rebeliouse]

whats he apologising for?

[myabe123]

Sending me pictures of him humping a pillow

[rebeliouse]

weird guy lol

do u usually enjoy hooks ups?

[myabe123]

No I’m a prude but I have a reputation as a whore because of jealousy not even lying

[rebeliouse]

how much of a prude are you?

how can u have a reputation as a whore because of jealousy? and what do you mean not even lying?

others getting jealous of you? or u jealous of others?

[In_Trance]

block him