My ex hooked up with me, but he has a girlfriend...

[zevonlemon]

I got a phone call from my ex couple weeks ago. We started hanging out. (maybe like once a week...) He tried to kiss me... and I asked him didn't he have a gf. He said they just broke up. I have a lot of doubts in my mind when he said he's busy and when he told me they broke up. And I checked his emails.. and myspace... apparently they never broke up. I told him I had doubts in my mind and I wanted him to tell me the truth and he said he'd never lie to me and they did break up. He said he doesn't see himself going out with me right now, however it might be possible in the future. And he said he always had feelings for me. If that's the case why did he lie to me about they broke up? Why is he cheating on his girlfriend with me? If he is cheating on his girl, doesn't that mean he's not that crazy about her? I'm still in love with him and I don't know what to do anymore.

[Merry-Heart]

Maybe you could contact her to find out if they truly broke up. I can definitely hear in your voice that you are in love with him. I would not do anything with him until you find out for sure that they broke up. Or, you could just ask some other people who know him to find out what's really going on. If he is still with her, you could confront him in front of someone who knows for sure that he's still with her. That may stop him from continuing to pursue you while he has a girlfriend. Not sure if any of that helps?

[vezna]

I think you need to fall out of love with this guy. Look at his track record. He is cheating on his current girlfriend with you, however he doesn't see himself in a relationship with you? He lied to you about being with his girlfriend, he is lying to his girlfriend when he is out with you. He is nothing but a liar, these nothing to love about a liar because you are not in love with who he is, your in love with who he says he is. Stay away from him, he sounds like trouble.

[ALWAYSclassy]

Girl delete him from your life! You already know he's lying to you AND her. If he treats both of you like that that shows he has no respect or love for either one of you. He's only taking advantage of you because he knows your love for him will make you give him what he wants. Move on because you deserve much better.

[loveAnsweringOldQS]

Maybe you could contact her to find out if they truly broke up. I can definitely hear in your voice that you are in love with him. I would not do anything with him until you find out for sure that they broke up. Or, you could just ask some other people who know him to find out what's really going on. If he is still with her, you could confront him in front of someone who knows for sure that he's still with her. That may stop him from continuing to pursue you while he has a girlfriend. Not sure if any of that helps?

[Rafael151]

He doesn't see himself going out with you right now, but he's been calling, hanging out and trying to kiss you? Danger! Road closed ahead!

[scared2askhim]

Flip the question around and you tell me whats right. If your boyfriend cheated on you. Wouldn't you want the other girl to tell you? Plus he lied to you. No guy is ever worth your tears,but if there happens to be one that is....... he won't make you cry.

[jaycee777]

No offence, but why are you his ex? Did you hurt him in the past? Maybe he does have feelings but knows that you have hurt him before, or maybe he has realised that he does have stronger feelings for his girlfriend now.

[somechick]

He wants his cake and eat it too. Don't let him have what he wants! He's obviously a lying cheating bastard. Say no to him. If he keeps pushing, stop hanging out with him. He's not worth it.

[Anonymous]

He is using you. He knows you have feelings for him and since he can get it from you and from his gf, then it's ok. You need to respect yourself and although you have feelings for this guy, you need to accept reality.

[Littletad]

He just wanted sex. That's all there is to it.