A few days ago I felt nothing towards her suddenly but slight annoyance. So I ended things. Now I feel remorseful, and depressed, and I keep thinking of all the times we had.
is this normal? Maybe I had some feelings left?
Most Helpful Girl
This happens to me all the time. I might feel like I am into a guy and then something destroys the picture and I get more and more negative vibes when even thinking about him. Then I end things and afterwards I feel awful. I don't long for that guy but I just feel empty and angry that I had no feelings for him.
Once I also had this guyfriend that I only liked as a friend, him I long for. Sometimes it hurts me to think about him. But he had stronger feelings for me and I couldn't let him get false hopes all over again, so we went our separate ways. It hurts to miss someone who you know are better off without you.
Most Helpful Guy
You don't have 'relationship OCD' I don't even believe that's a real thing. Just people trying to make themselves special snowflakes. It's very normal for people in a relationship, particularly if they're not 100% into their partner, to regularly fixate on whether they're doing the right thing.
Obviously you're starting to miss her now you've realized you might not be seeing her again. It's the simple 'you don't know what you've got till it's gone'. Completely normal. The best thing is to not get back with her and move on. You weren't 100% committed to her, that's why you ended it, respect that decision.