I recently dated this person for a month and a half and then suddenly spent two weeks agonizing over things (I think I have relationship OCD).
A few days ago I felt nothing towards her suddenly but slight annoyance. So I ended things. Now I feel remorseful, and depressed, and I keep thinking of all the times we had.
is this normal? Maybe I had some feelings left?
Most Helpful Girl
If you feel bad that you broke up, that's normal. However, if you start to remember little details about her like her eye color or her laugh, you probably liked her. if the bad outweighs the good then it's for the best that you ended the relationship.2
Most Helpful Guy
You don't have 'relationship OCD' I don't even believe that's a real thing. Just people trying to make themselves special snowflakes. It's very normal for people in a relationship, particularly if they're not 100% into their partner, to regularly fixate on whether they're doing the right thing.
Obviously you're starting to miss her now you've realized you might not be seeing her again. It's the simple 'you don't know what you've got till it's gone'. Completely normal. The best thing is to not get back with her and move on. You weren't 100% committed to her, that's why you ended it, respect that decision.3