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I immediately feel sad and regretful but it's not a real regret, it's just an unpleasant feeling of losing an attachment that I want to keep even if it's not good for me. I never actually regretted breaking up with anyone, usually it was long overdue.20
About 10 years ago I broke up with this adorable young Japanese woman. The funny thing was she was actually 7 years older than me! But she looked 15 years younger and I was 25! She was only about 4'10 if that and had the most adorable little apple butt, tight pussy and asshole and the cutest little titlets. She had a face more cute than the most kawai anime character and used to wear little butterfly bows in her hair. She was a walking cheek squeeze. The only problem with her was she had a crippling gambling addiction and I was always lending her money and helping her pay back debts. I just couldn't keep it up but to this day I still dream about that asshole.11
Yes. I had moved in with a girl I was dating in a long distance relationship. I had stayed with her for about a month, right after she came to visit me and my family. Then because I was struggling with my emotions, I freaked out and broke up with her and moved back home. Maybe a few days later or a week later, I contact her online and we patch things back up, we’re dating again. A year later, I screw things up again and we break up again. This time it was over forever and I’d like to think that if I hadn’t left her in her state and went back home that we’d still be together.10
What Girls & Guys Said
No, But when My Fiance and I Fight, I often Regret Things I say. xx30
No, I only regretted not doing it much sooner.20
Not me personally. But I have had an ex do that with me and she instantly regretted it. Cheated on me with a coworker, her loss. I hope her night of passion with someone who told her to her face that he never gave a crap about her was worth it.
I know that she truly regretted it too as she came to me and told me everything; but I have zero tolerance for out right betrayal and left.10
Nope, I have been the one to get dumped. But post dump I didn't feel the urge or desire to get back together with them. I felt the relationships had run its course and I learned what I had to to grow.
I tried to talk and work the issues out with two of them in the process of breaking up, but decided if she wasn't keen on trying to fix it either to let it go0
As bizarre as this might sound to most, leaving and never looking back is my favorite part. I actually look forward to that part as it gives some high of relief. It is like a load off, a sense of freedom, and the hound is back. Although the first ever was not good, I never regretted it or any others.0
No. I usually stay and fight as much as I can until I can’t anymore. That way when I decide to leave I know I’ve made the right decision.30
Never, but I never broke up easily with a girl. I mulled it over a lot. I did feel it in my conscience when they cried but I didn't regret my decision. I just wish it didn't hurt them.10
Naw. 1 break up back when I was 15. It was for a good reason.
I felt guilty hurting him but it was the right thing to do.30
No. The way I see it, if I break up with someone, odds are there were characteristics I wasn’t a fan of.20
I’ve HAD to break up twice.
Both times were mutual and both times regretted it before and afterwards.
its not something done lightly10
I've only ever broke up with one person, and I didn't regret it even though I was sad for a couple days because I know I made the right decision.30
No, it was always mutual and a process, and mostly for the better, so... no regrets.10
No. 2 of my ex’s slept with someone that isn't and because I am not ready for a sexually intimidating relationship. They slept with guys and I broke up with them and now they are parents. My first ex has 2 kids while my second ex had now 4 and both are homeless. Karma hit them badly.1
Yes but I was never serious about the break up but then she got upset and said yes thats it But we eventually worked it out20
I've broken up with the same person twice and regretted it20
Never. If anything when I have broken up with a woman I regret not having done it sooner.20
No, relationships run their course and then they are over whether I am the dumper or the dumpee. Most of the relationships I was in were over long before it was formally ended.0
Nope, cause I usually go down with the ship.0
Yes, my ex but when I realized that he’s a total psycho I stopped regretting it14
Never happened to me coach. When I'm done, it's done. What I have regretted is not pursuing certain women who were interested in me because at the time, I wasn't interested in them. I think I missed a couple of good ones !!0
Yes, i actually really loved him but i was only thinking with my mind. That it would not work out because of distance and that he could get way better in his own country. We weren’t even that far from each other and that year i would actually go to his country for dance training. But i was too insecure to make it a hindrance in the relationship.
The most stupid decision i ever made.
After a couple of months i only started missing him more and more to the point of crying everyday. After 4 months i tried to get back with him when someone told me to listen to my heart too, not only with my mind. But then it was already too late. At that point i realized that i had to move on.
Awwwww damn sorry to hear that. Thanks for sharing.
I went through a breakup, not my choice, that crushed me. I was truly miserable for over 2 months. I ended up seeing a therapist for a couple months and got over it. Then a few months later it came back. So, I understand the delayed reaction misery. I hope you got through it okay.
@jerdanro definitely :) it took me a while to get over it and I couldn’t eat for some weeks and slept terrible, i also went back to smoking, but my friends helped me through it with girl nights. I’m lucky to have good people around me that supported me through it. Made me feel that im not alone and that i got to focus on what’s ahead of me. I hope you are doing okay too right now, i wish you the best!