How do I handle the fact he chose someone else over me? (Page 2)

Question

So I've known this guy for half a year now, we hooked up on the second date in the beginning, then we wouldn't meet for a couple of months because I was studying in another country, then when I came back everything was fine for a month, we were seeing each other, I was staying at his place and he would tell me he likes me a lot and basically everyone out of his circle knew we were seeing each other. 

A couple of weeks ago, he became distant. I found out that he was seeing another girl and just decided to let him know about my attachment to him to let go emotions. And after that, he said that even though he really likes me, he is uncomfortable about seeing me anymore because of my attachment to him. Now his flatmates are telling me how he enjoys spending time with a new girl, how he tells them how hot she is and that she is just amazing. When asked about me, he refers to me as just a one night stand that got too attached. 

It hurts more not because he found someone else, but that after half a year of knowing each other he seems to just not care. How do I get over this?

Wowgirl10q · Answer

Wasn't meant to be. You can't see what's ahead of you if your always looking back. He must also have bad taste if he chose her not you

xoxoxoa · Answer

His loss. Forget him. Excuse me, but who run the world? Exactly gurl!

Lovethecountry · Answer

Hold you're head up, find reasons to smile everyday! Don't let yourself stay in this spot, it's not worth letting yourself be down about it, set goals and carry on

Raghvgour · Answer

He doesn't chose over you, he just realised that u deserve someone better and if this is not enough then

isaacluckett · Answer

Stop being a little baby back bitch it was 6 months not 6 years your prince charming could have just walked right past you and you aren't paying attention because of some guy who doesn't want you anymore move on

Guanfei · Answer

People have preferences. The other girl matched more his preferences than you. Someday you'll meet someone and you'll match his preferences, and he'll be the one.

ciaranvl · Answer

Better yourself and you'll come out stronger than ever

opurba · Answer

Move on n help him too to forget u by having someone beautiful than him.

HornetsFanAllDay · Answer

there's a million fish in the ocean and stay positive negativity won't do much to change the situation, but being positive will

Pizza_lover159 · Answer

Im sorry for you. But this is life. It happens and he maybe is right. Its been months. Maybe she is with him before you. Or after you left.

Anonymous · Answer

You move on sweetheart, you do other things. You'll forget and find someone that will appriciate you.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't take it personally... has nothing to do with you... all about him.

Guzzzz · Answer

Like a boss and move on with your life without dwelling on the likes of him

RumbleBuffin · Answer

That's rough. Just get through one day at a time and it'll get easier.

shadowerie · Answer

I've been going through some of the same things but I've never gotten over those feelings instead I've found ways to escape. Being free just takes all the pain away for me.

doge1606 · Answer

You need to Think that he is not the one for you You deserve someone who looks only you and don't choose other over you Time will tell

leledolan · Answer

Focus on urself and forget about that ass. Show him what he lost.

valualty · Answer

Just let it go. She probably more compatible with him

cfan95 · Answer

I get how you feel it hurts but you should see other men to. get over him possibly a guy that likes the attachment lol I know im one of those guys

Anonymous · Answer

two girls liked him, and he went with one of you two yikes. he should have dropped both of you, sounds like he's a player

moataz777 · Answer

the life is not for the weak u will find yr good destiny

natsume00 · Answer

you can just try to forget him and look for someone else and im sure u will found better then him

Skullpool · Answer

You are just not the indicated for him, then another men will appear

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Lol You should kick his ass

Icarus554 · Answer

Fuck that guy he ain't worth your time

Steven71 · Answer

While you were gone he already had someone else

pookybear123 · Answer

It’s shitty but that’s just how it goes sometimes.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Fuck that guy, he doesn't deserve you, he blew it

JesseTheMan · Answer

Can't really help it. Move on or fade away

2opaz · Answer

Cut his dick off

Kunakai · Answer

Tell her what he did to you?

Lieseeker · Answer

You are blessed and god wants you.

jon28805 · Answer

Do your best to move on.

Ricky1969 · Answer

Just don't think about it

rate-me · Answer

You forget about him.

bilal155 · Answer

Pay attention and respect

slatyb · Answer

Date someone else.

lazermazer · Answer

Time

Carrylovescurry · Answer

Deal with it

TheDreamRunner · Answer

Just get over it

BOUNTYGUY9 · Answer

thats fun

name_is_eric · Answer

You move on.

Anonymous · Answer

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