I don't understand why my crush chose him over me?
Looks wise, we have the same body type, I could kick his ass, I have much cleaner hair and nice facial hair.
Career wise, He works in technology what ever that means... Money wise I probably make more if not the same amount.
I don't know his personality, but my crush and I got along well, we laughed, joked flirted.
Effort wise, I would have done a lot for her, he wouldn't... She has to put in a lot of work for their relationship, planning, driving, she does everything... He seems to not put in too much effort.
I just don't know why she chose him, I feel like I'm way better than him...
The only two possible stupid reasons I can think of, but don't know if it can be true:
-She is Chinese and wanted a Chinese Guy
(I'm not Chinese)
-She wanted someone with an Apartment/Lives alone
-Age, wanted someone older than her?(I'm 1.5 years younger)
I just am lost why she chose him over me...
What does he have that I don't?
Most Helpful Girl
It's not at all about what he has that you don't. While all that stuff is great, attraction also had to do with chemicals and chemistry. She just must have had more of a "spark" with the other guy. It's no fault of your own or anything you're lacking, at least from what I can tell in the information given.2
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Most Helpful Guy
Yeah. Asian girls won't go for someone younger. Her parents will approve his chineseness more than you and they can also speak Chinese together.
Chinese people are racist as fuck. She would probably be seen to "bring shame upon" her family or make them "lose face" if she dates a non Chinese man.
Also he has his own place. That's a biggie.1