how do i get over a guy who played me and told me that he loved me but he won't ever treat me right when i take him back and he changed for other girls according to him because of me i made him see the way he was treating girls and what not and he opened up to me last night and then he changed his mind and said that he was going to work things out with a girl who f***ed around on him with her ex who deserves him more me or her? I've always been there for him through good and bad and when everything is going wrong in his relationships with other girls they are only there in the good times any help on how to confront him?
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Honestly you can't change someone. Only he can change himself.
Basically he's being a bad boy. He only cares about himself and not you.
Don't let it bother you...you don't deserve him anyway. You're the good person in all of this, he's the douche bag...you have to remember that. He messed up on something that could have been. Don't let his feelings toward you mess with you. Don't contact him anymore. He doesn't deserve your time if he's going to be a d***. You were the one lookin for love in the relationship and he lies on his own behalf. You need to stay confident in yourself and not think about this guy anymore. Get involved in things you love to do. Get with your girlfriends, go to the gym, play a sport, just do something that you love doing. That's what helps me get over girls that hurt me. I go to the gym to beat off all that negativity or I go out with my friends.
Don't let this guy engulf your thoughts girl...he's a player. Players make up their own excuses so that they can get what they want. You're the better person in this situation, now tell yourself that. Confront the guy and just say your done. Tell him he's not real and he's immature.
All in all, just forget about this guy. There are so many other guys out there that would treat you the way you deserve to be treated.0