My ex and I met last year. While we were dating, he didn't tell me entirely about his past multiple girlfriends. He did tell me a close female friend likes him. I was upset and fought with him to tell her about us and finally he did. She was also the reason why him and his last two girlfriends before me broke up. Those girls had suspicions about her and him as being just friends. 6 months ago he broke up with and didn't give me a reason. This is after I told my parents about him so I was hurt. He was a guy I dated after ten years and we talked about marriage. He texted me 3 months later pretending to really text his friend. He told "his friend" how much he used to really love me. We started talking again. He first said he wants to be just friends. Then said he wants to be friends and see where it goes. I was really upset because he was showing he still was interested in me but didn't want to meet up no matter how many times I asked. Eventually we started fighting because I didn't know his real motive. He finally told me that he is starting to become interested in someone else. He blamed me for us not working out and practically made me look like a psycho. He knows how much I still love him. How could he do this to me the second time around? I really do think he got together with his "friend". He is a doctor and 29 years old. He has a really big ego. I was always there to support him when he was down. When he first met me, he said girls made him feel low about himself but I didn't. He introduced me to a few of his friends to "show off" because they think I am pretty. When he started talking to me the second time, he started pointing out I wear too much make up and my eyes are squinty sometimes. I never talked anything bad about his looks although he is short and balding. It's been a few days since we texted. Last time he texted, he wished me for Christmas and said "all the best (and my petname he gave me)?!?!? He was being very cordial and talking like I was a third person yet calling me by my pet name. When I said he shouldn't do that if he wants us to move on, he said "no, (my pet name) will always be in my heart)! Wth? I know he is a kind of mind games, he even claimed he is and what he did was not fair to me. He shouldn't have made empty promises if he was interested in another girl. He shouldn't have come back and acted like he was interested in me but can't get together because his family is "going through a rough time with his sister". If that's the case, why did he take a pic of where went for dinner and send it claiming he took while he was "drunk". He never gets drunk. And he wouldn't be interested or seeing someone if he used his family issues of not getting together with me. I really do think it's over between us and it makes me so sad. I feel ugly and feel like a loser. I think he'll text me for New Year and send me a very formal greeting. It's so painful. :(((((((
Ex boyfriend made a fool out of me again!
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