Ex hanging out with MY friends?

[Anonymous]

My ex boyfriend and I dated for 2 years and broke up a month and a half ago after a pretty rocky relationship. I've had no contact with him for a couple weeks but I recently found out he has been hanging out with my (girl)friends. I know he's not attracted to any of them or trying to make moves, but it is still weird to me that he is hanging out with them because he didn't really have any association with t hem when we were dating unless I was around or unless he was just saying hi to them if he ran into them.

Why is he hanging out with them NOW? Do I have a right to be upset about this?

[turokturok5]

hmm it sounds kind of familiar, I was close with my ex's friends but when she dumped me I became closer with them. Like I went out clubbing with one of them (me and her are the only ones in the group that are 18) and then slept at her house, on the living room floor though. Her other friend, who is one of my mates girlfriend I hang around her a lot at uni. I don't know I think its just since your not in a relationship, its still nice to have companionship with the other sex, like I have no interest in dating them at all and I would never try anything more than friends with them. On the other hand, I think my ex is trying to get me back because she's invited herself over my best mates house, always calling him/texting him and stuff. You shouldn't really be upset tbh, if he's not attracted to them at all, he's just using them to fill the void of losing you as a companion and it's easier for him to get close to them as he already had some kind of connection with them.

[BeowulfNode]

So did he kiss / have sex with / date / marry any of your friends?

I'm thinking he tried to. How would you know if he is attracted to any of them? Do you think he would have told you while you were dating, "I think your friend is hot." Perhaps he isn't making the moves on them in front of you.

If I was in your situation my feelings would depend on who broke up with who

If I broke up with her or it was mutual. If an ex like that of mine was to start dating a friend of mine, the only thing I'd feel is wanting to protect my friends from the person I know she is.

If she broke up with me, I'd be jealous and feel betrayed by my friends but even then, there's nothing I could pin on her. Unless she was cheating on me or is going for an upgrade.

[Boring01]

TRAITORS! You need new friends dear...jk. Anyways, You should ask your "friends" why are they hanging out with your EX and yet dear call themselves your "friends".