Guy don't express there feelings as much. At times we will put all those emotional chips in one place share shit we wouldn't tell anyone so get mix of is this still confidential. That when we get use to expressing them rather use guys want to admit it or not its nice way to unwind get retrospect and sometimes reality check 😂
Most guys actually don’t take breakups that hard. For the ones who do, it’s probably because women end the relationship the vast majority of the time. It’s easier to do the dumping than it is to be dumped.
Unless you've abandoned her, in which case she goes and at the very least scratches your car - but aggression is OK when it's a female and not OK when it's a male doing it. Mind you, most real people know it is the case, it's only those fake ones like the poster who stir up troubles. Men men men - and then the insecure ones out there are WOMEN.
Some Women tend to be very insecure, that’s not offensive, it’s ok to understand your short comings. It helps us to help each other through tough times.
Its worse for men because of the burdens placed on them in a relationship of being the protector and provider. A break in a relationship threatens their emotional worth and status. A man is by nature meant to be polyamorous. Choosing a single mate is a profound choice often taken for granted by women. Having one sexual partner is a huge deal. If you are talking marriage. Courts give women the unfair right to take a mans earnings or wealth at 50%. Even if she hasn't earned it.
Your daughters attract crazy people, that is not how aberage men are. It seems you've taught them well, what with your misconceptions and ridiculous lies!
Ttue, I don't know you, but I do know how to read. Which is why I've based everything on the information you've given here. So don't pretend like I invented or assumed anything when it's written right here. And if you don't want to be "judged", don't say such stupid nonsense and stay off the internet.
You know what I won't do with my life? Do what you did to your daughters and then blame the world like a spoiled little bitch. Keep talking, dirt, if it helps you fake a little self worth.
Woman tend to be very surface oriented while men tend to internalize their feelings. Woman are able to change out a man like he's just dirty underwear, but men have deeper emotional needs and once they are cutoff from the nourishment they've been receiving, it becomes an impossibility to go on as if nothing happened.
It can take years to seal off the destruction caused by an unfaithful woman and a lot of men never fully recover. The good news is that once you do survive the big one, you'll never suffer like that again. In fact it becomes easy to spot loser chicks from the gitgo and avoid their destructive ways. That's not to say that a good woman won't disappoint at times, but she will never turn on you when your down.
I've never had a woman leave me so she could be alone. It's always the guy that has been sleeping with her for the last two months that gets her to tell me goodbye. Pretty empty.
For my fun, I get to watch as that same guy takes her for everything she owns and then busts out with the another chick he's been bagging all along.
You know, what comes around really does go around.
Is this really true though? I mean based on your theory, just because women have a million thirsty fuckers chasing them, doesn’t mean they have it easier finding a life partner. Kind of like police cases where the public get involved and bombard the investigation with false sightings and stuff, makes it 10 x harder to solve a case 😂
Women just have so many horny dudes lusting for them that they get used to short relationships and getting used for sex etc so when they have a heartbreak they take it better than men do because they're used to it... Kinda
Maybe because for most guys, it's a million times harder to find someone else than it is for women to? lol I know for myself, that's often one of my thoughts, "I'm never going to find anyone else". Of course there are other reasons when/if feelings are involved, real feelings. But this also.
If we're looking for a representative sample of all men and women who have broken up, I sure hope your experience doesn't cover that. You'd have to watch hundreds of thousands of randomly-selected break ups.
Don't forget Bobbit or however you spell it the chick that cut the dudes dick off that's possibly worse luckily they were able to reattach it. I think he even did some porn after. So I guess it worked out for him but not worth the risk. I would of killed the bitch luckily I'm not a cheater so I don't have to worry. Really I probably wouldn't kill I'd probably just move as far away from her as possible cause that chick is scary
Guys are strong from outside but they are all soft hearted so they easily get bonded with a girl if she gives him the full attention he needs and once they don't get attention they express their felling out. It's like a flamingo thing if one companion goes away or die the other dies too
If I said what I really want to say, this comment would turn into an 500 page essay. Long explanation short, most guys ( who aren't gay) have a serious mommy complex. Mommy didn't knock the boob out of their mouth and babied them for way to long. So they feel the overwhelming need to have a female to take constant care of them. Quite sickening really and it makes the rest of us laugh.
Because unlike women , men develop a severe emotional attachment to the one they chose. Even if the cheat on their wife they still love them very deeply. I still love both my ex wife's, but they follow their hormonal imbalance that never gets fixed after children enter the picture. A study done in 2017 says 16 % of all married women cheat and of those 13.5 percent stated the urge developed and would not go away when their first child hit age 2.
It's not just about breaks up lots of other things also trigger it as well and well girls have problems with breaks up to everyone takes things differently
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Guy don't express there feelings as much. At times we will put all those emotional chips in one place share shit we wouldn't tell anyone so get mix of is this still confidential. That when we get use to expressing them rather use guys want to admit it or not its nice way to unwind get retrospect and sometimes reality check 😂
""real men never cry"
"suck it up buttercup"
"emotions are for women"
in short - we tend to not have that support and this is what happens.
Because we are set in having a stable universe in our life. When that stability is threatened or destroyed our universe collapses.
My State of Being
Most guys actually don’t take breakups that hard. For the ones who do, it’s probably because women end the relationship the vast majority of the time. It’s easier to do the dumping than it is to be dumped.
I disagree, I’d far rather be dumped. I’m way to afraid to ever dump a person, too concerned for their emotional well being.
Unless you've abandoned her, in which case she goes and at the very least scratches your car - but aggression is OK when it's a female and not OK when it's a male doing it.
Mind you, most real people know it is the case, it's only those fake ones like the poster who stir up troubles. Men men men - and then the insecure ones out there are WOMEN.
Some Women tend to be very insecure, that’s not offensive, it’s ok to understand your short comings. It helps us to help each other through tough times.
Its worse for men because of the burdens placed on them in a relationship of being the protector and provider. A break in a relationship threatens their emotional worth and status. A man is by nature meant to be polyamorous. Choosing a single mate is a profound choice often taken for granted by women. Having one sexual partner is a huge deal.
If you are talking marriage. Courts give women the unfair right to take a mans earnings or wealth at 50%. Even if she hasn't earned it.
Your daughters attract crazy people, that is not how aberage men are. It seems you've taught them well, what with your misconceptions and ridiculous lies!
Haha, um you don’t know me, judge internet stranger 😂😂
Ttue, I don't know you, but I do know how to read. Which is why I've based everything on the information you've given here. So don't pretend like I invented or assumed anything when it's written right here. And if you don't want to be "judged", don't say such stupid nonsense and stay off the internet.
Haha, but then what would you do with your life? I’m here so you can do the important key board worry work!
You know what I won't do with my life? Do what you did to your daughters and then blame the world like a spoiled little bitch. Keep talking, dirt, if it helps you fake a little self worth.
Woman tend to be very surface oriented while men tend to internalize their feelings. Woman are able to change out a man like he's just dirty underwear, but men have deeper emotional needs and once they are cutoff from the nourishment they've been receiving, it becomes an impossibility to go on as if nothing happened.
It can take years to seal off the destruction caused by an unfaithful woman and a lot of men never fully recover. The good news is that once you do survive the big one, you'll never suffer like that again. In fact it becomes easy to spot loser chicks from the gitgo and avoid their destructive ways. That's not to say that a good woman won't disappoint at times, but she will never turn on you when your down.
So, if a chick decides she would like to move on from dating you then there must be something wrong with her?
I've never had a woman leave me so she could be alone. It's always the guy that has been sleeping with her for the last two months that gets her to tell me goodbye. Pretty empty.
For my fun, I get to watch as that same guy takes her for everything she owns and then busts out with the another chick he's been bagging all along.
You know, what comes around really does go around.
Probably because women just have to exist to get male interest vs men who have to invest time and effort to get female interest.
Is this really true though? I mean based on your theory, just because women have a million thirsty fuckers chasing them, doesn’t mean they have it easier finding a life partner. Kind of like police cases where the public get involved and bombard the investigation with false sightings and stuff, makes it 10 x harder to solve a case 😂
Women just have so many horny dudes lusting for them that they get used to short relationships and getting used for sex etc so when they have a heartbreak they take it better than men do because they're used to it... Kinda
Maybe because for most guys, it's a million times harder to find someone else than it is for women to? lol I know for myself, that's often one of my thoughts, "I'm never going to find anyone else". Of course there are other reasons when/if feelings are involved, real feelings. But this also.
I don't think it's just a guy thing I think it a difficult thing for anyone
Yes, but women kill less people over it in my experience.
If we're looking for a representative sample of all men and women who have broken up, I sure hope your experience doesn't cover that.
You'd have to watch hundreds of thousands of randomly-selected break ups.
Don't forget Bobbit or however you spell it the chick that cut the dudes dick off that's possibly worse luckily they were able to reattach it. I think he even did some porn after. So I guess it worked out for him but not worth the risk. I would of killed the bitch luckily I'm not a cheater so I don't have to worry. Really I probably wouldn't kill I'd probably just move as far away from her as possible cause that chick is scary
But you're probably right about more men killing over it than women. How sad that anybody is that screwed up in the head that they can't just move on
Guys are strong from outside but they are all soft hearted so they easily get bonded with a girl if she gives him the full attention he needs and once they don't get attention they express their felling out. It's like a flamingo thing if one companion goes away or die the other dies too
Chemical imbalances caused by traumatizing experiences in life.
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Men often have no friends that they talk to about their feelings outside their partner.
that’s not very good in a breakup scenario.
Those are an extreme response I don't share.
Answering your question: on average females have a support group after a breakup, males don't, we cry alone.
Support groups are very important in anything that has a major negative impact on our mental wellbeing.
Women may recover faster from a breakup but I think women are more likely to get back with an ex than men.
If I said what I really want to say, this comment would turn into an 500 page essay. Long explanation short, most guys ( who aren't gay) have a serious mommy complex. Mommy didn't knock the boob out of their mouth and babied them for way to long. So they feel the overwhelming need to have a female to take constant care of them. Quite sickening really and it makes the rest of us laugh.
Because we have failed to protect the woman we love it means we didn’t do something right which isn’t good for guys self esteem.
Weakness.
A strong man who knows his worth just will just move on to millions of other good catches out there.
Suicide because 1 girl won't go out with you anymore?
That is pathetic.
Because unlike women , men develop a severe emotional attachment to the one they chose. Even if the cheat on their wife they still love them very deeply. I still love both my ex wife's, but they follow their hormonal imbalance that never gets fixed after children enter the picture. A study done in 2017 says 16 % of all married women cheat and of those 13.5 percent stated the urge developed and would not go away when their first child hit age 2.
Everything that we thought about the women we had feeling for was a lie
Also women have a bunch of men ready to get in her pants if they had a break up , men don't have that
That's why I like being single
Also you should call the police on them for blackmail
Also the threatening suicide sounds abusive to me.
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It's not just about breaks up lots of other things also trigger it as well and well girls have problems with breaks up to everyone takes things differently