Take it from a guy that stupidly hoped and prayed and for 20 years after being the idiot that kept falling for the love and didn't listen to his head after the first time and let it happen again and again. Now I'm trying to pick up the pieces.
It’s tough. You have to know you can put it behind you and let it go. If not you are going to have a rough time. Has he ever lied to you about anything else?
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I think you should have left him. I have been in your shoes and girl if I could turn back time and leave I would have. But since you didn’t leave you have to be prepared to leave at the next sign of a fuck up
The problem is that once trust is broken it is extremely hard to get back. There will always be that little jolt in the back of your mind saying did he? And that will crush both of you over time.
Maybe try to work things out but if he does it again might need to call it off. My ex girlfriend did that and I cought her she got rid of it, but she downloaded it again a couple months later so I ended it.
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I don't need another one backstabber in my bedroom.
Dating app and dating profile is a clear sign from my perspective
I wouldn't. The app is a conscious choice to begin looking for another person for a relationship/sex/attention.
Crying is a cheap move to garner sympathy when you were the one on the short end here.
Why else did he download the app but to entertain cheating meh I wouldn't because trust is essential and he broke that
Take it from a guy that stupidly hoped and prayed and for 20 years after being the idiot that kept falling for the love and didn't listen to his head after the first time and let it happen again and again. Now I'm trying to pick up the pieces.
No way but I did because the sex was absolutely amazing
Personally? Probably yes. Until I saw the damaged space between us for myself
No, I leave the moment I cannot trust them anymore.
It’s tough. You have to know you can put it behind you and let it go. If not you are going to have a rough time. Has he ever lied to you about anything else?
I think you should have left him. I have been in your shoes and girl if I could turn back time and leave I would have. But since you didn’t leave you have to be prepared to leave at the next sign of a fuck up
The problem is that once trust is broken it is extremely hard to get back. There will always be that little jolt in the back of your mind saying did he? And that will crush both of you over time.
Maybe try to work things out but if he does it again might need to call it off. My ex girlfriend did that and I cought her she got rid of it, but she downloaded it again a couple months later so I ended it.
If trust is broken, why still stay with them? You never know what they have done before.
No trust = no love. If you still stay, you're fair game and will have only yourself to blame when all hell breaks loose.
If you think your relationship is worth saving for, try to fix things and start again, earn each others trust again
Trust can be rebuilt again. It’s difficult though. Most aren’t able to.
I can forgive a lot of things if I think it's worth it.
No. No trust, no relationship. That goes for romance or friends.
i would regain her trust and tell how much i love her
Hard to answer, nothing physical happened but I understand the betrayal, do what your heart tell you to do.
hell no, next to communication, trust is everything in a relationship