My ex dumped me 2 weeks ago but still hasn’t taken down our lovey dovey photos from social media?

[Anonymous]

2 weeks ago my boyfriend of one year (we are both 20 and sophomores in college) broke up with me a week before our one year anniversary because even though he loves me, he felt that he is still young, this was both of our first real relationships, and that he doesn’t have the relational experience to know the type of person he could spend the rest of his life with. He also expressed not repeating his parents mistakes (they got married in college, divorced several years later, and didn’t speak for 10 years) as well as that if we had met later in life or late in our college career, he would be much more comfortable committing to a more lasting relationship. This kind of came out of nowhere and what really confuses me is why he has kept the lovey dovey posts of ya on his Instagram (kissing, calling me BAE, missing me, kissy emojis). We were each other’s first love, but if he dumped me, why does he keep it all up social media? (To be Fair there only 2 posts, each with several pictures)

[BrokenClown]

It's quite simple yet complicated first he honestly loves you and doing something like that is not at all easy for a genuine guy but he did both of you a huge favor and by that I mean, eventually even though you don't feel it now , you more than likely would have done the same to him. It's just my opinion. I say this because this very same thing happened to me. My highschool sweet heart and I got married had 3 son's but after being together so long we grew used to each other and stayed in a ruetein. There was nothing left for excitement and sadly eventually she started conversations with other men while I worked and our kids were at school. I was so deeply in love with her when she left me and my 3 son's on mother's day I was completely destroyed I cried every day and night for weeks straight licked myself in my room and my house went to shit. It took me 3 tears and a new female friend to bring me out of what was a hairs trigger from having a full on breakdown. She moved in with some guy with a rich family and showed her true colors. I began to hate women and couldn't stand love songs. My whole world was turned upside down and my 3 son's and I would just all get into a group hug and cry. Everyday when they left to school I waited outside under my orange tree till 3:30pm when they got home... I couldn't even set foot in my own home because everything in there was a life I built for our family...😔
3 years it took , and the only way I could get myself to go inside my house was to throw everything in it away. I burned her cloths and trashed everything she's left behind
(except our kids of course) lol it took me to completely redecorate the entire inside for me to be able to go back inside my house.
The point is it don't seem like any wrong could happen being with the one you love more than anything and knowing your future is with them. But it can and it will. Take this advice I tell my young boys. This is a fact and a saying I made up
"THE PERSON IN CONTROL OF THE RELATIONSHIP IS THE ONE THAT LOVES THE LEAST" it's sad and true. If you leave less he'll go out if his way and make more effort to keep you happy. But don't overdo it cause then he'll feel nit good enough and discouraged and look for what he needs from a woman somewhere else.
Your both young and have so much to experience in life and your lucky enough to nit have kids. Go live life and make mistakes, without mistakes we learn nothing including who we really are and what we truly like and love. Don't make my mistake and give yourself to someone so young. Cause now I'm 38 and don't know what I like and am afraid of rejection, don't know how to let any woman know I'm interested. Am completely terrified of love because of what it could do to me. That pain I never want to experience or feel again. I don't think I could survive it..
Live your life stay focused on you. Become the best you that you can see yourself. Be successful and never let anyone see when your hurt, misery love company

[boggboss]

Has not been bothered to deal with it yet as he is enjoying his freedom