I broke up with my narcissist boyfriend a month ago because couldn’t stand anymore his devaluation of me and recently he blocked and then unblocked me within a week... So, what does it mean when someone block and then unblock you within a week?
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I currently got broken up with from my narcissist. What it seems to me is that narcissist block people so that they don’t feel guilty for living their best life. So by him having you blocked he has no idea what you’re doing or what you’re up to and can assume things in his mind about how you’re a terrible person and he’s his victim. Then, narcissist unblock because they want your attention. He doesn’t want you to move on or forget about him so he is unblocking you so that he can get ur attention, and try to get you to speak to him. Once he gets a validation that you aren’t over him and that he can have you whenever he pleases, he’ll just go back to blocking you13
He is probably hoping that you will check his social media and see all of the "look how good I am doing" posts and come running back11
Not Ex apparently or you a stalker one of two.0
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He is expecting a message from you. Don’t give him what he wants. If he unblocks you then you block him.0
Probably just bored and being nosy. Ignore him.10
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Playing with you.
I’m not even sure if narcissistic people heal from the mental factors that contribute to it, or any traumas they maybe faced in their childhood, but it could certainly be (if not for all, some of them), mentally so. Basically I’m saying like, it’s not curable.
Just let them become famous or so, and they’d probably do best with people who love showering accolades, and such.
They’re not ideal for relationships with people who have needs themselves, and expect that ‘simple reciprocation’ in a typically balanced-relationship.
Yeah, it can work with a narcissist, but if only a person is used to being on the giving-not-receiving-end, or willing to rewire their brain for that narcissist, and POSSIBLY truly neglect themselves in an unhealthy manner, as consequence.
I highly recommend you do NOT entertain that relationship. 👐 It would be a handful of heartache. 🤕
I’ve entertained one before and it fed my sexual kink, without having to be “planning it” in role play, but I knew the dangers so then I just left him lmao.
I would never live with a narcissist. Also I’ve been through the grinder enough not to catch feelings with narcissist types, so that’s why I have no concern about them, but there are thin lines.
Don’t lose the real authentic person you are, or waste time away from more practical and realistic goals, that only grow with interest and promise of emotional/ sexual/ relational benefits, down the road of life.
The narcissist will promise you nothing.
👐😐 They only promise their selfish personality. Take it or leave it.
I suggest humbly and GENUINELY, you leave it. Who knows how severe his is. 🧐☝️😳
Nicer fish in the sea 🌊 💖