Why are over 80% of divorces or breakups in America initiated by WOMEN?

[Apope16]

Do women value loyalty and commitment?

[Anonymous]

I've talked about this with a close friend who is a specialist in couples therapy and she admits that in many cases, the woman breaks the relationship these days. Sex has always been dishonest is some way. We have to admit that as a woman, it's not easier to get a relationship, but it is a lot easier to get sex than it is for a man. However, for men it has always been easier to randomly fuck around and get away with it, even getting socially praised. As a woman, you easily get labled as the local cumdumpster.

In case you are wondering, yes women also have sexual desires, also toward other men while in a relationship. The last 20 years, on one end technology has been advancing and gave us dating sites, apps and all kinds of tools for women to act on these urges more easily, and most importantly, more unnoticed. On the other hand, it has become more accepted that women act more like men and dare to go for that quick sexual relief with Chad from the bar.

The social control that kept women for getting that easier sexual desire is fading and thus a lot of women are experiencing freedom they haven't felt before. But the downside is that this freedom can easily come in between a relationship.

The reason relationships end is more and more often because of cheating, and sadly it's the women who are getting equal or even getting the upper hand from men when it comes down to cheating.

[lilyanony1]

I think many woman value loyalty and commitment but I also think the female male ratio makes it hard to find a man willing to settle down.
Men have more options.
It's easier for a man to find a woman more suited or mould her to be more like she wants than it is to find a man willing to adapt to fit his partner.
I also think that marriage brings a lot of female expectations.
And I think that puts a lot of strain on a relationship.

[es20490446e]

Cause women won't be in a relationship where the man is not invested. Or if they are inadequate partners, that they don't accept their abuse.

My latest two dates finished the relationship themselves, but in both cases it was after the fact I stated my standard. So it was me who decided to risk the breakup in reality.

One of them wanted to have sex with anybody. The second was arguing and demanding to everyone all day, while visiting all kinds of people during covid as negating its existence.

[jaybee281]

They sse marriage as the day they get married - not as a lifetime commitment - they get bored easily as "excitement goes down" - with this no need to have a reason to get a divorce+the court's support for women in such cases dudes just don't get married

[OlderAndWiser]

If women valued commitment, wouldn't they be less likely to initiate a divorce?

[JEndigoBleue]

How about the one who initiated the marriage is not fulfilling his commitment to forsake all others, provide, protect, etc.

You can't assume women are divorcing with bad intent without knowing why they divorced their husbands. As if these men are so righteous and upstanding in their marriage. Some are. Some not.

Yes, some women married for the wrong reason and reality hit then once married. But, most do marry for the right reason and things goes south. Some go to counseling but it takes two to participate in the healing and reconcile process. If the spouse is not willing to do better, the other have a choice to stay or leave.

They say "Women want to marry for the ceremony" ... So, the question is... Why do men get married? Since they are the ones that buy the ring, put together an elaborate proposal and ask the woman to marry her? Seems like both like the idea of showing off... One in the beginning. One in the end.

[FilmGuy93]

Women also break the marriages up over smaller infractions. It's because society is teaching us that short term happiness is the most important thing in life.

[Jersey2]

Women pride themselves in being to see through all the guys who hit on them to decern who is Mr Right am yet they are either wrong or simply change their mind.

[loves2learn]

That I don’t know. I rarely initiate breakups. Maybe men are more reluctant to part with the sex?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Because they're the ones who are going to be benefited from that. If the guy is the one who do it, he's getting the consequence instead

[JamieLoves]

Cause they’re trading up !
They see us as Financial Plans...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You would have research their reasons for divorce? Adultery, abuse etc.

[Anonymous]

That's white wives. Asian wives know how to take a beating or two so 20% of marriages are saved

[COMMODOREII]

Each case is different really.

[7771999]

A lot of them don't, it seems

[LostYahooAnswersUser]

Women have more options

[karaspara]

I have no idea

[WowwGirl]

Damn standards