Is it normal to still have dreams of your ex?

[SeanshterMonster]

I have dreams of my ex 2 night a week. And no, they are not wet dreams at all. It's just us being together, doing something together, no matter what I can't just forget everything about her. I remember everything.

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It's been almost 2 years

[Aysen]

I believe it's normal if you miss them very much!

You've been through quite a journey with relationships, and there was a strong, emotional connection you had with your ex. You yearn for the feeling of it, even after the relationship ended. You hold onto it, because it brought you so much happiness when you were with her, that your subconscious deeply desires it. I believe these kind of dreams are normal, as I've went through the same process during the time I broke up with my girlfriend and deeply missed not only her presence but the time we spent together bonding and connecting emotionally and passionately!

I have a good feeling that until you find someone you feel passionately in love with again or until enough time passes, these dreams will keep reoccurring, because love is a very powerful feeling that doesn't disappear, even after a long period of time. You continue to curse at the world for bad luck in finding the right person, yet your determination believes that you'll find that feeling of love again so I know you haven't given up on finding the right person! I really hope you do because you have a good heart, despite all the negativity you say about yourself. These dreams are reminders of what you have to look forward to; a loving and endearing relationship, once again! Hope this helps with what you're looking for and I hope you'll be able to find love again because once you feel it, you'll always want it!

[Gosceewual]

na, it means she's still on ur conscious and on ur mind, maybe u feel a soul connection to her, why did u brake up?

[Gosceewual]

there's this guy who iv loved for like 4 years, and ever since she friendzoned me the whole time n mentions how she wants to suck black cock all the time n stuff, it makes me feel so sad and rejected i jus wanna shoot myself in the head lol :(

[Gosceewual]

girl* not guy., wtf

[SeanshterMonster]

Cause she was dealing with too much stress she said. Mom's death, family distress, school stress, she just didn't have the time for me and too much stress blocked her feelings so she dumped me. I thought I had her heart. But she just dumped mine. And got with someone else like 2-3 months later

[Gosceewual]

Oh lol

[Gosceewual]

What the fuck lol, how could u have not time for someone? And why would you dump them jus cos you need a little time off?
Sounds like a bullshit excuse to me lol, she probably just wasn't too keen on you and was tryna look for the greener grass on the other side of the field...

[SeanshterMonster]

It's not like I did anything wrong.

[Gosceewual]

Fuck her

[Gosceewual]

You deserve someone better who truly loves you and won't leave

[SeanshterMonster]

It seems like those people are impossible to find

[Trucksmash]

I've had manynwet dreams and the vast majority are over Xs one or two in particular from a long time ago who I still dream about. I think there's an element of being in love but there have been several occasions where I've had wetbdreams over Xs I really don't get on with. But I reckon it's very common

[Slartybartfast]

The dreams I have of my ex, usually end with me jumping off a bridge, overpass or being tortured to death.

[Sevenpointfive]

i have dreams of everyone i've met in my life. sometimes those that aren't so influential as friends

[CaptainRex1993]

Yes, it's normal. Had a couple a few months ago. I think about her sometimes because she was my first girlfriend, but it doesn't mean, that I'll get back with her again.

[SeanshterMonster]

It's been 2 years

[CaptainRex1993]

You must still think about him then and there's nothing wrong with that, unless he treated you bad in the relationship.

[SeanshterMonster]

*her. It was a girl. I'm a guy

[CaptainRex1993]

Sorry about that. I'm completely out of it. I still have the same thoughts though.

[SeanshterMonster]

I miss the relationship we had, definitely. The happiest time of my life. Still was, now it's gone

[CaptainRex1993]

Why did you guys end things, if you don't mind me asking?

[SeanshterMonster]

She dumped me in the middle of the night one day. She said she didn't love me, she never loved me. That she was going through too much stress in life and she was unable to love me

[SeanshterMonster]

2-3 months after the break up, she finds someone else.

[CaptainRex1993]

Sorry to hear that. You deserve better. Don't waste your time and energy on her. I'd move on, trust me on this. There are better girls who actually treat men right.

[SeanshterMonster]

I haven't found them though. Other then that one I've been in 3 others. All of them were abusive

[CaptainRex1993]

Takes time and patience.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes, she shows up in mine every so often!