Do you have "guilt baggage" from causing a heartbreak?

[Anonymous]

Explain

[TurboKid]

Not so much. I mean I feel a little bad about it when I reflect back on it but it's something I tend to forget without questions like these making me recall them. That said, I didn't really do anything bad at all (the breakups were warranted and in response to very unreasonable things the girlfriends did like giving me ultimatums to choose between them or my friends). I just remember feeling bad when they broke down crying in front of me.

[TurboKid]

It's like I wish it wasn't painful to them, but at the same time, I don't think I was guilty of any wrong-doing except maybe becoming an item in the first place when I didn't know they had that toxic side to them.

[Slartybartfast]

My ex ruined my life, I honestly would be better off if she killed me in my sleep. Being immolated would have been preferable.

I'm absolutely sure she doesn't give what she did to me a second thought.

I'm friends with her highschool boyfriend now, he litteraly hasn't dated anyone since and neither have I. She told me she ruined men, her one redeeming quality was her honesty.

[Miah02]

Yeah. I made a decision back in hs to break up with my boyfriend.
Because i was trying to get a scholarship.
We were a good couple and I knew it wasn't fair for him to try to fit himself in my life between high school ball. AAU, 2 personal trainers.
But i know he was hurt anyway

[Espresso-Grande]

I have guilt. I'm sure most people do. But I don't let it consume me to the point that's it's become baggage.

[HiveBee]

I'm sure i haven't broken any hearts. I was too beta in the past. Females dont get broken hearts over beta males.

[FilmGuy93]

Not really at this point, no. I realized that I wasn't the cause of the break up, even though I initiated it.

[CentralPerk77]

No - I have always dealt with that really well … the better question is do YOU have guilt baggage?

[Anonymous]

I feel bad for causing them pain, but I don't regret any of the choices I've made concerning people

[johnsmithjs]

NOPE, they all deserved it.

[JosyJosy]

nope :)