Why did I get unlucky again about cheater ex boyfriend tried to ask me out on Instagram?

[Splatzonelover1]

My first time going to a youth club. Afterwards, my ex boyfriend tried to sit next to me and talk to me. I just told him I wasn't interested in you since he cheated during our relationship and I was the one who ended the relationship because he did cheat during our relationship. Cheaters won't change. I find my ex boyfriend to be immature now and his behaviour is a turn off for me. I may look for a dating agency that specializes in learning disabilities, but other than that. When I first came to the youth club, my ex boyfriend recognized me. Maybe going to another club with yoga and dancing could help. There are also learning disabilities

[Anon621]

I would imagine your ex tried getting back for you for his own reasons so if I were you I wouldn't worry about it. If you don't like him being around you can always try getting one of your friends to tag along with you if they are free during your youth club. If not then I would probably try telling him to stop making advances

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

You said it yourself, cheaters don't change.

You can't expect him to. 🤷🏼‍♂️

You did the right thing. Tell him to leave you alone and look for someone else.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah maybe going to a different place where he won't be is a good idea

[Splatzonelover1]

I can't go to another place.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Didn't you suggest that yourself in your post details:
"Maybe going to another club with yoga and dancing could help. There are also learning disabilities"

[Splatzonelover1]

that another thing. i mean not another youth club since different ex boyfriend go to a Youth that was also a cheater ,

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, if being around him is disheartening to you, then find events at which he will not be present.

[Splatzonelover1]

that issue. i can't go another events.

[ohshee]

I think that's the best idea you've ever had LOL yeah you have to change it up find something new find a new place find new people no matter where you go to look for love 50/50 deal but eventually you will find that one you just have to be patient

[Angelo75]

Just steer free and stay far away from him. No interactions if you don't want him to continue hitting on u.
And to protect urself if later he realizes you don't want him anymore, and start being mean about it.

[meetkitty123]

Well don't give up on youth club because of that boy. Enjoy your group and hobbies. it would be good to try new clubs. You get to meet new people.

[CoolGuy7532]

You're right. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't talk to that guy. You can find a nice guy who will respect you. Good luck!

[Splatzonelover1]

I already been trying to I look for dencet guy and yet I can't even fun thanr but can seem to get bit good guys. Eg fake nice guys.

[Cherry234]

Yes perhaps going to that other club will help you. If your ex is harassing you or stalking you then call the police and/or get a restraining order

[litty]

If he's been following where you go, you can try to tell the organizers that he's harassing you and won't leave you alone. They should be able to do something about it.

[Stevefiveo]

Good for you. Find a guy that you like. Good luck.