Why is it that my cheating ex boyfriend who I dated months ago decided to view my Instagram story even though we don’t follow each other?

[Anonymous]

Basically a few days ago I did a sfs which is a share for share on Instagram with a mutual friend who knows me and my ex boyfriend and basically I sent the mutual friend the video that I wanted him to post for the share for share and then he sent me a picture of him that he wanted me to post for the share for share and basically I’m pretty sure my ex boyfriend follows him and the mutual friend follows him back and basically within minutes or a few hours when I got back on Instagram to check my views my ex was in my views and viewed everything that I had posted on my story that night its very weird because he claims to have a girl but does this and plus he unblocked me on instagram actually a few days before this even happened because he kept constantly blocking and unblocking me for some awkward strange reason but has a girlfriend 😂😂 and I noticed that he likes to put up a front in front of me as well

[SwellStroke]

Likely he is snooping to see what you are doing as there may be something he still feels towards you. You are always able to block him if you are not wanting him there I would imagine?

[Asker]

That’s the damn problem he should mind his business he shouldn’t be snooping plus I don’t snoop and watch his stuff or stalk him or any of that he should have much more respect especially for his relationship who in the hell snoops to watch an exs Instagram story after adding them on Snapchat 3 weeks ago then to block them for no reason and then you block and unblock me then block me again then you finally unblock me but your dealing with another female but watched my story all because you seen a fine ass video of me on Instagram posted by one of our mutual friend who’s a boy 🤔 seems to me he’s up to something because I feel like he woulda be a watched me it that video wasn’t going around but clearly someone like him can’t help him self

[SwellStroke]

Ideally yes, however I can say that when my ex-wife and I parted ways. There was a lot that had happened right near the end. I would be lying if I said that curiosity on how things were going for her hadn't caused me to check. Had did it only a few times on FB back in the day, then had a moment where I asked myself what am I doing, and blocked her to remove the temptation and have been good since.

That is why I bring up you blocking him, denying him the access. Especially where he has another that he is with now.

[Pegases]

How do you know he unblocked you and then blocked you?

[Asker]

Because he’s the first username to pop up under my primary dms on Instagram and one when I went under my primary messages to text someone back his profile picture was loading which means he had unblocked me because he had posted on his story in order for that to even load that’s how I knew just like with Snapchat I got a notification on the top of my phone saying that he had added me and then he had blocked me because when I tapped to view it to see it his username wasn’t popping up and I kept getting some error message saying that his Snapchat username wasn’t found

[Pegases]

Wow. I had no idea it was possible to tell.

[spartan55]

You girls act like looking at your 'stories' carries SO social value... it's just mind boggling.

[Anonymous]

Why does it matter? You're obviously still obsessed with him if this is even a question for you.

[Asker]

Lmfaooo are you sure I’m the one obsessed if I was obsessed then I would be watching him and watching his story like he did me but I don’t so I’m pretty sure he’s the obsessed one here not me and I’m not the one who’s adding an ex on Snapchat just to block them minutes later 😂😂that’s all him

[Opinion Owner]

And yet you're still talking about him..

[Anonymous]

here's an idea you probably never thought of but why don't you just ASK HIM

[Asker]

Oh he’s not going to answer because when I asked him when did he constantly block and unblock me especially because I don’t bother him nor speak to him or speak on him or acknowledge him and I don’t bother to block and unblock him but when I asked him he was deadass silent as hell he couldn’t even answer the question

[jayhams]

Waste of your time to give it any thought

[Anonymous]

Aw you like his attention na?

[Asker]

What do you mean😂😂 no one likes his attention for anything his attention shouldn’t be on me I should be on the person who’s he dating or dealing with because I know she wouldn’t like it if she found out what he was doing

[Anonymous]

I hope he’s not stalking you.

[Asker]

I hope he isn’t either but honestly who knows that’s the first time ever I’ve caught him in my views because he had me blocked for a few months on Instagram because even a few weeks ago he had added me on Snapchat out of nowhere out of the blue and then I decided to add him back just to see what he was going to do and he blocked me and I’m just like what’s the point of doing all of this if your in a relationship or is dealing with somebody plus the video that our mutual friend posted on in his story wasn’t a regular video of me it was a video of me like showing my body and stuff like that but I had my clothes on I had on a crop top with leggings and my hair was down so I believe when he seen the video that’s what drove or triggered him to go watch my story but either way he needs to stop because it’s unnecessary

[Opinion Owner]

Stay safe.