I never had such bad break up its been more than 6 months and I struggle with pain every now n then, time to confront that bitch ?

[Anonymous]

I loved her but she was wearing mask. The ugly Truth showed up at the end she was like demon rude and cruel. There was problems between us every now n then but I never think she will ended this way. She acted sweet and everything thing is fine but it was hypocrisy it was a plan to revenge in worst way. Everything was fine then suddenly she posted songs for someone else ! I was shocked and the pain was insane I was dealing with so many things already I lost my job because of the pandemic and cash and I was depressed I was there for her when she was feeling bad because she had zero self Worth I helped her to be more confident and complain her look and supposed her. My parent was dying she did all that in the time that death was getting closer and closer and she blocked me every where. I couldn't say anything or do anything I was like full of scar and wounds and I had to focus with doctors and chemotherapy seasons. I can say I moved on and I did date few other women but every time I think about her I get the pain again and feeling bad. I know where she works I saw her about week ago accidentally I felt flames in my chest. I feel I have to confront her why the fuck you would do all that damage before you go? You already have plan to go and block why you need to do all that?

Should I do it or no? I'm tired with this thing I feel it's heavy on my shoulder

[CharlesScene]

Honestly, don't do it. It is not worth your time. Also, you are just telling her, that she made the right decision by leaving you (I am not saying that she made the right decision, I am saying revenge plot would show that) The best thing to do, is to let time heal you, continue to put your self out there with other girls, and eventually down the line, you will see her and just feel nothing. Revenge will never get rid of that burning inside you, it will still be there afterwards and you may even just make it worse.

The burning hatred is also a good sign, as it is one of the steps of getting over someone. You are going from I miss her and thinking she was the best, to the next step, of realizing just how toxic and awful she truly was. From what you described, you are better off without her any way, seems like a very toxic relationship, and you are honestly better off doing your best to waste anymore time or energy on her

[Asker]

Thanks a lot for the help 👍🏻

[slatyb]

No that too will never come. Living well is the best revenge. I went through a very actinolite divorce. It is killed my ex-wife that I was happy without her, dating much nicer and more attractive women. I let a woman who knew her and sheer said "All she talks about is you".

[Asker]

I hope you're doing better without her. Some women are more toxic than Chernobyl itself.

When I saw her she knew I'm better without her she looked miserable and had like hippo ass. While I improved myself as I got back to gym and got another job I was obviously over her. I think it will goes no where if I confront her. Some people never change and its better to walk away.

[noohair]

I am sorry, some people are emotional vampires. All take and no give. Keep moving forward and don't live in the past. That worked for me.