Girls:do you ever feel tempted to cheat?

[Anonymous]

^^ whether sober or drunk, whether on holiday or just out in town do you ever have the temptation to cheat.. or have you ever? if your in a happy relationship?..if you see a guy who is hotter than your bloke/funnier etc

coz I know as I guy I wouldn't ever cheat on my girlfriend, sober or absolutely drunk! just wonder if women are always looking for someone better?

[Vasillilaw]

Well, for some odd reason I'll see a person and then when I'm masturbating sometimes my mind will wonder and I'll accidentally think about them. I mean...seriously...it's completely accidental. Like I'm not even attracted to these ppl. It'll be some ugly guy I had talked to that day, or some old lady. It's weird, but I promise I don't get off when thinking about that. haha. But the only times I've ever felt the least bit tempted were times in which I felt vulnerable and was with a guy I had already been with sexually. I try to avoid them at all costs so that I don't make a mistake like that.

[A_Guy]

my ex used to do the same, or have sexual dreams about random guys she met that day.

[Vasillilaw]

Did she cheat?

[invisible_monster]

yep. I was drunk, kind of expecting it though. I'm not sober enough to figure out whether I feel bad enough yet. I like my boyfriend wayyyy more than the guy I just cheated on him with, but my relationship with my boyfriend, while supposedly exclusive, is very casual. I usually go several days without talking to him whether in person or via phone/social media. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't really care.

[siquetumeamaste]

No. Never ever ever ever have I even dreamed of it. Even when I am flat out drunk, I have never thought about, looked at, danced with, or touched another guy. I wouldn't willingly hookup with someone even if I was single. I'm very conservative and loyal and I won't even kiss a guy unless I'm in a relationship. I have seen that cheating can hurt and I would never what to do that to someone I care about.

[Bvroon]

I'm not a woman, but I have been cheated on by my first wife, and she is now my ex-wife, and It hurt pretty bad. So I would never cheat on my present wife, I can't imagine putting her through the same pain I went through EVER.

[Brando]

Dealing with a cheater at the moment. Shit is sickening and I have a low opinion of stupid cheaters.

[babygirltiffie]

i typically have no temptations whatsoever to cheat. I don't date just any guy, so I'm single alot...so I wouldn't want to cheat or even think about it while in a relationship. sure if I think someones hotter or whatever I could like them but I'm a faithful kinda girl as I would expect a guy to be.

[ShootingStar5]

In a happy relationship? No way! I'm incredibly happy with my boyfriend. I have too much love and respect for him to do something that would hurt him like that. And besides that, he's perfect for me and I don't want anybody but him anyway.

[carlo]

That's worrying for me. How will you behave the moment things get rocky for a while and seem like things are not gonna get better?

[ShootingStar5]

As long as he doesn't turn into an asshole I'll still love him and respect him. I'm not delusional, I know it's not always sunshine and rainbows lol And if things get bad without seeming like they'll ever get better then I'll break up before I would cheat.

[ShootingStar5]

Worry about the people who said they would cheat... not the ones who wouldn't.

[b_luvedbaby]

There's a difference between being tempted, and giving in to temptation.

[b_luvedbaby]

Oh, and no, I've never cheated.

[XRabbitHeartX]

This this this.

[b_luvedbaby]

:)

[Guytalks]

@ luvedbaby: I believe he knows that difference. I think he is asking girls to tell him what they feel when they get tempted, circumstances (guy hotter than boyfriend etc...), how frequent and strong is the temptation, how do you deal with the temptation, do you feel like you could give in if you were drunk, or after a fight with your boyfriend etc...

[b_luvedbaby]

I was simply trying to say that being tempted is normal. Yes, there are circumstances that make the temptation greater, and it's those circumstances that I avoid.

[annaleigh_17]

i agree. I have honestly cheated before, and I was happy in the relationship. the guy I cheated with was a really good friend, (well kinda more) and he wanted to do stuff. I didn't want to lose him as a friend..so I gave in

[CatholicVirginia]

NO. I have never been so drunk that I haven't been 100% aware of my actions and repercussions. I've done a few things I regret, but I knew at the time I'd regret them. I have NO desire to cheat and I would never. I don't understand how people can.

[ocelot]

No, because no one can make me feel the same way when my boyfriend touches or kisses me, so why would I cheat if it's not gonna satisfy me any way? Cheating is something that I can never understand.

[AmberChick]

I would never cheat. It depends on the relationship though. If I'm happy, the answer is no. If it's a casual relationship, then it wouldn't be considered cheating.

[tohrment]

No. If I was 'tempted to cheat' I obviously am not in a happy, fulfilling relationship and I would break it off.

[ilovemyjose101]

If it was a happy relationship no.

It it wasn't probably still no, maybe tempting, but no...

I would dump the guy first.

[cun7n1nja]

No. I think cheating is disgusting. When I'm stuck on someone, I'm stuck on them. Other people don't matter.

[angelwithin]

No, even if the guy is an asshole. I'd rather break up with him first than to cheat on him.

[CatholicVirginia]

Ditto. If I want to cheat, why am I with him in the first place?

[Apodyopsis]

Cheating is NOT an option, if I'm happy or not in that relationship. I've never even felt tempted.

[whatson]

No, I didn't even feel tempted to cheat when I was in an unhappy relationship.

[MrsJones7]

yeah I do feel tempted to cheat but I don't act upon it because I can't do that to my baby.;

[bel42]

no I have never felt the urge to cheat on someone I like.

[kaskas19]

Never have. Never will.

[JennieF]

Yeah I think that's pretty common.

[dIO_oIb]

nope.

[Rita593]

Not really

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

Nope, never.