Guys when you’re cheating, does the thought of possibly getting caught in the act every turn you off in that moment?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I would say its more of a turn on? Makes it more exciting like you know you're doing something wrong/bad.

[Asker]

I get that part but I feel like that would only be exciting at the thought of it. You know you probably won’t get caught because you’re careful but the possibility is a turn on because it’s exciting. I think that would be different from something like you cheating in the home you and your girlfriend live in together. Like you know she’s on her way home but you and the other woman are still going at it or attempting to. So it’s likely that thought could now be a reality and it’s no longer fun or exciting lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Obviously yes, you wouldn't cheat if you didn't want the relationship to end. If you wanted it to end you could just break up