Why did he texted me that he got placed and will earn ton of money and I will not be a part of it and when I said good luck he said that's a lie?

[Anonymous]

a guy and i were in a casual relationship and we kissed but he was really toxic and not good for mu mental health. he used to emotionally blackmail me and always crying that everyone leaves me and it used to build pressure on me to not to even when he became really toxic. then when i left him because he flirted with my friend, a week after he texted me that he got placed and all and i wished him good luck and then he said that's a lie and after that he said you could've stayed but you left just like my ex. i am tired of his crying about that those exes of his left him.

[OlderAndWiser]

The more important questions are:

1. Since you broke up with him, why do you maintain any communication whatsoever?

2. Since you broke up, why do you care what he thinks? As long as you care, you have not let go of him.

[Asker]

I am trying my best to move on but he comes again and again. And asks me to not to leave and if I try he says you are just like my ex.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you want to drag this out for some time or get it over with? Block him on your phone and all SM and refuse to talk to him.

[Asker]

I want keep connection with him but the way he triggered my insecurities, I am repelled from him now.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why would you maintain contact with someone who is bad for you?

[Asker]

Because maybe right now my and his circumstances maybe different what if in future it won't be like that? This thought but then I get beck to reality and think this is bullshit. He is toxic but I can't cut him off.

[OlderAndWiser]

People rarely break up because of circumstances. They break up because they don't like each other. Yes, you are probably giving yourself an excuse because you don't want to deal with the trauma of really breaking up and then starting over with someone new.

[Asker]

I think so, but I did it. I am trying to recollect my self.

[OlderAndWiser]

Good luck!

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a weirdo.

[Asker]

I know, he confuses me a lot

[boggboss]

Because he is salty

[Asker]

I think so, but he doesn't realize he is toxic one.