there was a online friend i used to talk and ask help about my online boyfriend sometimes. we weren't talk for a half year. because he blocked me, after i left my boyfriend he came back somehow, he didn't know this. he said he likes me still but he knew i love my boyfriend and i want to save my relationship so he changed his mind later. then he was helping me only about my online boyfriend. few days ago he said he won't help me anymore. he blamed me for lying so i sweared to holy book that he is my only friend and i dont lie about it. but he didn't believe me. then he said im a gaslighting machine even though i didn't do any badness to him, he saw i cried but he didn't care. then today i sent him a normal pic of me. then he sent me his pic, i said i like him a lot and he can make me forget the man who left me. then i said we can marry and he said he can marry me now. we had a sexual chat after i learned he can marry me i trusted him. because he sent a video he says he loves me and he say sorry for yesterday. then i sent him my nudes. and he said he will send a mail, he didn't even say thank you. and i saw in his mail he says he tricked me and lied to me and he won't talk me again. now im in tears and i feel used like a wh*re. im very bad. please help me
- Anonymous(30-35)2 mo
Hun, you need to get offline, plain and simple. Heal, focus on real life relationships. These men you’ve met just aren’t good people and you gave away your trust too easily. Save that for someone who deserves it, because those guys don’t.
17 Reply- 2 mo
in his mail he said:
Dear x, (x is my name)
By the time you are reading this email, we will not be able to communicate via WhatsApp or any app anymore. I will try to keep my English simple as you have always requested and to keep this short.
x, the truth is, I lied and I tricked you. I wasn't going to be able to marry you now or soon. I am very sorry for what I did. Perhaps Shaitan (devil) took over me. Obviously now I cannot be your friend or your lover because of the horrible things I did. But I just want you to know that I will never talk publicly about your pictures and what we did. It will be a secret forever with me. So, you don't have to worry about that like you worried with your abusive ex boyfriend. I would never do such a thing - 2 mo
I hope you find a better person to be your friend, someone who isn't a liar or a trickster. You are really pure hearted. But this world is the problem (along with me). There are good and bad people out there. I hope you never have to get lied to again anymore. And I hope you meet those good people. I wish there was a way to fix this but there is nothing to be done now.
- 2 mo
Some things about me to consider:
My family and I are actually lower middle income class socially
I wish to find a good business/job to make my family and my mom proud mostly
I almost never had a girlfriend (except 1 before maybe 5 years ago for some 8 months) and it sucks as a guy to live around and see your friends getting married and engaged and you're still trying to make your parents proud of you - 2 mo
I am not the good person you think I am anymore. I am a liar and I tricked you. I deserve the worst. I am a sinner. I have 1 last request of you. Please forgive me for what I did. I really didn't mean to do it. Again, I am very sorry. I will pray for you and your family. I will pray you study in med school and graduate. I will pray for your health and your family's health. I will pray you find the right person for you and find other good friends. And lastly, I will pray for you to forgive me for what I did.
- 2 mo
i waited like a hour for him to say goodnight my love thanks for your nudes and i cum for you. i thought he will send me his cum video but he made me wait ALMOST A HOUR. i was saying please say you love me too so that i won't feel like a hour i trusted you like you are my boyfriend because you said we will marry. he read all but made me wait like a hour and then he sent me this mail that he trick me😭💔 now i feel like used like a whore. he used me like a whore right? 💔😭
- Opinion Owner2 mo
Poor thing, I am very sorry.
One thing to remember about people online is that not everyone has good intentions. Some people just want to escape real life, so they “pretend” online. The don’t see these relationships and connections as real.
You are a very sincere person, and sadly that is perfect for a man to take advantage. In this case, your ex-friend definitely took advantage of your kindness. There’s no erasing all this, just do better in the future. That means not to trust so easily and certainly don’t talk about love and marriage as casually as you did. I would not be forming any more romantic relationships online if I were you, or close friendships like that with men. Keep it casual and like a hobby.
I know your English isn’t great so hopefully this response is clear enough but I can clarify anything if you need!
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- Guru Age: 282 mo
Move on and be thankful that you did not waste more time with the loser.
17 Reply- New 2 mo
in his mail he said:
Dear x, (x is my name)
By the time you are reading this email, we will not be able to communicate via WhatsApp or any app anymore. I will try to keep my English simple as you have always requested and to keep this short.
x, the truth is, I lied and I tricked you. I wasn't going to be able to marry you now or soon. I am very sorry for what I did. Perhaps Shaitan (devil) took over me. Obviously now I cannot be your friend or your lover because of the horrible things I did. But I just want you to know that I will never talk publicly about your pictures and what we did. It will be a secret forever with me. So, you don't have to worry about that like you worried with your abusive ex boyfriend. I would never do such a thing - New 2 mo
I hope you find a better person to be your friend, someone who isn't a liar or a trickster. You are really pure hearted. But this world is the problem (along with me). There are good and bad people out there. I hope you never have to get lied to again anymore. And I hope you meet those good people. I wish there was a way to fix this but there is nothing to be done now.
- New 2 mo
Some things about me to consider:
My family and I are actually lower middle income class socially
I wish to find a good business/job to make my family and my mom proud mostly
I almost never had a girlfriend (except 1 before maybe 5 years ago for some 8 months) and it sucks as a guy to live around and see your friends getting married and engaged and you're still trying to make your parents proud of you - New 2 mo
I am not the good person you think I am anymore. I am a liar and I tricked you. I deserve the worst. I am a sinner. I have 1 last request of you. Please forgive me for what I did. I really didn't mean to do it. Again, I am very sorry. I will pray for you and your family. I will pray you study in med school and graduate. I will pray for your health and your family's health. I will pray you find the right person for you and find other good friends. And lastly, I will pray for you to forgive me for what I did.
- New 2 mo
i waited like a hour for him to say goodnight my love thanks for your nudes and i cum for you. i thought he will send me his cum video but he made me wait ALMOST A HOUR. i was saying please say you love me too so that i won't feel like a hour i trusted you like you are my boyfriend because you said we will marry. he read all but made me wait like a hour and then he sent me this mail that he trick me now i feel like used like a whore. he used me like a whore right?
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he was jerk but at least honest19 Reply- 2 mo
in his mail he said:
Dear x, (x is my name)
By the time you are reading this email, we will not be able to communicate via WhatsApp or any app anymore. I will try to keep my English simple as you have always requested and to keep this short.
x, the truth is, I lied and I tricked you. I wasn't going to be able to marry you now or soon. I am very sorry for what I did. Perhaps Shaitan (devil) took over me. Obviously now I cannot be your friend or your lover because of the horrible things I did. But I just want you to know that I will never talk publicly about your pictures and what we did. It will be a secret forever with me. So, you don't have to worry about that like you worried with your abusive ex boyfriend. I would never do such a thing - 2 mo
I hope you find a better person to be your friend, someone who isn't a liar or a trickster. You are really pure hearted. But this world is the problem (along with me). There are good and bad people out there. I hope you never have to get lied to again anymore. And I hope you meet those good people. I wish there was a way to fix this but there is nothing to be done now.
- 2 mo
Some things about me to consider:
My family and I are actually lower middle income class socially
I wish to find a good business/job to make my family and my mom proud mostly
I almost never had a girlfriend (except 1 before maybe 5 years ago for some 8 months) and it sucks as a guy to live around and see your friends getting married and engaged and you're still trying to make your parents proud of you - 2 mo
I am not the good person you think I am anymore. I am a liar and I tricked you. I deserve the worst. I am a sinner. I have 1 last request of you. Please forgive me for what I did. I really didn't mean to do it. Again, I am very sorry. I will pray for you and your family. I will pray you study in med school and graduate. I will pray for your health and your family's health. I will pray you find the right person for you and find other good friends. And lastly, I will pray for you to forgive me for what I did.
- 2 mo
i waited like a hour for him to say goodnight my love thanks for your nudes and i cum for you. i thought he will send me his cum video but he made me wait ALMOST A HOUR. i was saying please say you love me too so that i won't feel like a hour i trusted you like you are my boyfriend because you said we will marry. he read all but made me wait like a hour and then he sent me this mail that he trick me now i feel like used like a whore. he used me like a whore right?
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18 Reply- 2 mo
in his mail he said:
Dear x, (x is my name)
By the time you are reading this email, we will not be able to communicate via WhatsApp or any app anymore. I will try to keep my English simple as you have always requested and to keep this short.
x, the truth is, I lied and I tricked you. I wasn't going to be able to marry you now or soon. I am very sorry for what I did. Perhaps Shaitan (devil) took over me. Obviously now I cannot be your friend or your lover because of the horrible things I did. But I just want you to know that I will never talk publicly about your pictures and what we did. It will be a secret forever with me. So, you don't have to worry about that like you worried with your abusive ex boyfriend. I would never do such a thing - 2 mo
I hope you find a better person to be your friend, someone who isn't a liar or a trickster. You are really pure hearted. But this world is the problem (along with me). There are good and bad people out there. I hope you never have to get lied to again anymore. And I hope you meet those good people. I wish there was a way to fix this but there is nothing to be done now.
- 2 mo
Some things about me to consider:
My family and I are actually lower middle income class socially
I wish to find a good business/job to make my family and my mom proud mostly
I almost never had a girlfriend (except 1 before maybe 5 years ago for some 8 months) and it sucks as a guy to live around and see your friends getting married and engaged and you're still trying to make your parents proud of you - 2 mo
I am not the good person you think I am anymore. I am a liar and I tricked you. I deserve the worst. I am a sinner. I have 1 last request of you. Please forgive me for what I did. I really didn't mean to do it. Again, I am very sorry. I will pray for you and your family. I will pray you study in med school and graduate. I will pray for your health and your family's health. I will pray you find the right person for you and find other good friends. And lastly, I will pray for you to forgive me for what I did.
- 2 mo
i waited like a hour for him to say goodnight my love thanks for your nudes and i cum for you. i thought he will send me his cum video but he made me wait ALMOST A HOUR. i was saying please say you love me too so that i won't feel like a hour i trusted you like you are my boyfriend because you said we will marry. he read all but made me wait like a hour and then he sent me this mail that he trick me now i feel like used like a whore. he used me like a whore right?
- Anonymous(30-35)2 mo
He sucked you right in.
08 Reply- New 2 mo
in his mail he said:
Dear x, (x is my name)
By the time you are reading this email, we will not be able to communicate via WhatsApp or any app anymore. I will try to keep my English simple as you have always requested and to keep this short.
x, the truth is, I lied and I tricked you. I wasn't going to be able to marry you now or soon. I am very sorry for what I did. Perhaps Shaitan (devil) took over me. Obviously now I cannot be your friend or your lover because of the horrible things I did. But I just want you to know that I will never talk publicly about your pictures and what we did. It will be a secret forever with me. So, you don't have to worry about that like you worried with your abusive ex boyfriend. I would never do such a thing - New 2 mo
I hope you find a better person to be your friend, someone who isn't a liar or a trickster. You are really pure hearted. But this world is the problem (along with me). There are good and bad people out there. I hope you never have to get lied to again anymore. And I hope you meet those good people. I wish there was a way to fix this but there is nothing to be done now.
- New 2 mo
Some things about me to consider:
My family and I are actually lower middle income class socially
I wish to find a good business/job to make my family and my mom proud mostly
I almost never had a girlfriend (except 1 before maybe 5 years ago for some 8 months) and it sucks as a guy to live around and see your friends getting married and engaged and you're still trying to make your parents proud of you - New 2 mo
I am not the good person you think I am anymore. I am a liar and I tricked you. I deserve the worst. I am a sinner. I have 1 last request of you. Please forgive me for what I did. I really didn't mean to do it. Again, I am very sorry. I will pray for you and your family. I will pray you study in med school and graduate. I will pray for your health and your family's health. I will pray you find the right person for you and find other good friends. And lastly, I will pray for you to forgive me for what I did.
- New 2 mo
i waited like a hour for him to say goodnight my love thanks for your nudes and i cum for you. i thought he will send me his cum video but he made me wait ALMOST A HOUR. i was saying please say you love me too so that i won't feel like a hour i trusted you like you are my boyfriend because you said we will marry. he read all but made me wait like a hour and then he sent me this mail that he trick me now i feel like used like a whore. he used me like a whore right?
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