Ex made a post about me saying he was losing feelings?

[Anonymous]

I need some advice. Awhile ago I was in a relationship and around February he grew cold. End of February we had an argument and he left and I was devastated because I thought it was cause of me. However I found his spam account on Instagram and literally a day before Valentine's Day he posted saying he thinks he's losing feelings. And I am just shocked that he would post something online, for the entire world to know before I do. What should I do?

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I ended up just liking the post and leaving it there.

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His friend unfollowed me so he definitely saw the like and told her about it. Yet no message or apology. Just wow. Honestly feel like unfollowing or blocking but I'm trying to display emotional stability.

[Bee-Hatch]

Long version - Move on. Anyone who describes love and emotional connection as 'having feelings' has the emotional range of a squirrel. Not the cute red squirrel of Victorian Christmas cards. No one of the invasive Grey squirrels that are best described as tree rats.


Short version - move on.

[Asker]

Dont get me wrong I've moved on but I just feel like I've been lied to for months

[Bee-Hatch]

The world is full of people will lie to your face. Folk that work in advertising get paid to do it. Even in relationships folk will do it. Sometimes for good - planning you a surprise day out. Sometimes for bad. You've just got to be a bit more Elsa about it and let that shit go.

[Asker]

Thanks girl. I liked the post just to signify that I know. Ima meditate now and let it go.

[Bee-Hatch]

No worries. Just find someone a bit more emotionally complex next time. Always look for your red squirrel

[Asker]

Yeah you're absolutely right. I needed this. Thank you so much

[Wonderwhat]

Just leave him alone. It's over.

[Asker]

I know but thats just flat out wrong

[Asker]

I'm not going to blow up on him or anything but Im thinking about just liking the post. So he knows that I know

[Wonderwhat]

If you want to. I would just give him space for a few weeks.

[Asker]

Well tbf this was all the way back in February. It's been months. Also if I gave him space for a few weeks I dont think he'd even notice

[Wonderwhat]

Just like it then.

[Wonderwhat]

He might say something.

[Asker]

Done! Thank you for keeping me calm lmao. If he does say something about it I'll come back to this post and ask you guys how I should reply, or if I should reply

[dudeinohio]

Do nothing. He's an EX.

[LoveforYou]

Now what you want?

[Asker]

Im thinking about sending the post to him and just not saying anything

[LoveforYou]

Do it?

[Asker]

Or maybe I could just like the post

[LoveforYou]

That good idea