Why am I extremely heartbroken and sad after a 4 month relationship, 9 months later?

[Anonymous]

[GrayCLes]

(From my experience guess) Because you don’t understand the reasoning behind it. If I’m your mind, everything should have been fine and all the correct things were done, then it not working out would leave you unable to move on.
If that is the case, the best thing you can do is push it aside as one of those things that you don’t understand but you accept happened. The more you try to make sense of it, the more it is going to the room but you could have going on in your life. You don’t have to except the hurt that comes with it, but you can’t except that you don’t understand yet and that one day you might. Every day you try to fix something that can’t be undone, is another day that you’re not building something that could be great.

[GrayCLes]

^If in your mind
^the more it is going to ruin what you could
^but you can accept

[ChrisMike1919]

You put a great amount of feelings in such a short time. And it hurts like hell and will take some time to heal. I'm kinda the same.