Is it normal still feeling hurt after 8 years breakup?

[Jojojojojojojo]

Me and my ex broke up years ago , we were in same school back to the days.

We met at 13 and broke up at 17

Our relationship went from innocent, pure to very toxic.. we kept hurting each other and plus peer pressure. After that we both cheated ( but he made it sounds like i was the only one who cheated so he can do revenge on me) my old schoolmates hated me and i lost contact with them. i was like completely cutted out from highschool...

I met him in street few days ago holding hand with his girlfriend. the feeling is so weird...

then i kept having bad dreams recently.. what should i do?

[AsaKyo]

If he was your first love, then this is no surprise. But I'll admit, 8 years is a pretty long time. If you're still worrying about it at the age you are now, then maybe you should go see a therapist to help sort out these feelings.

[Jojojojojojojo]

No. it's not. It's second.

[LazerBean]

No it is not normal. You need help.

[Emanon25]

Yes it’s possible