I begged my ex to admit he didn’t love me but he cried instead and said he did. Then he ghosted me for another girl weeks later. Why?

[Anonymous]

[kylee2437]

Because why beg someone to admit something when they are telling you exactly how they felt. Maybe he fucked up, I don’t know your side of the story but that poor man was crying

[Asker]

Because I didn’t believe it anymore after so many lies and mean things he had done. I wanted closure because I still loved him and I thought that if I heard him say it wasn’t mutual it would kill that stupid hope in me that I should fight for things more than I already had. And I believed the tears and truly felt like I wished he was being honest but 2 weeks later he was gone like I meant nothing. I don’t understand what makes him “the poor man” in this situation. If he wanted to leave all he had to do was say that. I even told him before this conversation that I could tell he wasn’t in it and that I wanted him to be happy even if he was with someone else but all I wanted was honesty

[kylee2437]

I still don’t understand how begging someone to admit whatever does anything for the situation. You saw actions you didn’t like and you get to choose what is best for you. That doesn’t mean he didn’t love you. Obviously he did if he’s crying. If he is as young as you are, he is bound to make mistakes. Now I’m not saying you have to stick by him through those mistakes, BUT he’s also allowed to move on if you aren’t willing to stick by him. He also may be rebounding as well. If he has done you dirty, you probably shouldn’t care that he’s speaking to other women anyways.

[slatyb]

Why do you care? He’s your ex. Block him and move on.

[Guy13]

He gave up on you... Done !!