So we had a really good 2-month thing, everything felt right, an emotional connection was present, our love languages were compatible, etc. However, his mom's sickness ending up turning terminal and he broke up with me because "he couldn't be in a relationship with me right now". He kept me on social media and watched my stories up until a month or so passed and he unfollowed my Insta and then a week after that he unfollowed my Snapchat (after continuing to watch my stories there). I don't understand why he broke up with me and then staggered the "unfollows" rather than just doing it at the time of break up. He clearly didn't "forget" since he was actively seeing the stories and knew it was me. Any ideas, Im just super confused about this mess.
You're no longer useful to him in any way.
There was no emotional connection but only his codependency on you according to his convinience.
Same thing was about to happen to me in future but I stopped it and abandoned him. I saw the red flags
Now I got the upper hand and he's frustrated trying to win me back.
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You've been ghosted. Means he didn't have the relationship you thought you had in your mind.
Good news for you though as you now know he's a narcissist and possibly a sadist
He was probably checking to see how you are doing out of curiosity but told himself he has to let you go so he deleted you, sounds like maybe he has mixed emotions about the breakup, I wouldn't see any other logical explanation to this
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