What is your biggest heart break story?

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DenizLikesTennis · Accepted Answer

I actually have multiple mini heart breaks that you could puzzle them in a huge one which was socially involved.

I'd want to write a big story but I will skip a lot. So one meaningful out of those was one girl I met at the gym, when I was on my purpose and grinding hard. She was the most beautiful, the most loving partner in the whole world!! Her hair, her vibes... it was refreshing!

It was one day, I thought about her literally 24 hours and when I went to bed... I'd fell asleep like in 3 hours because my mind was on the run🏃‍♂️🧠.

Once I've asked for her number. She'd say (shocking): "if you are not a Fkboy, then yes". Back then, I have had no any idea what that word meant... wasn't even interested to know the meaning😯

I couldn't train anymore because I was always texting/thinking of her. Up to this day, I still remember the exact date when I met her at the gym and when I've texted her the entire day!! It was a Wednesday, April 14th/16th 2017 at the gym and 2 weeks after, a Tuesday.

I'd phantasize love scenarios with us together doing stuff and she's showering me love/affection.

So... there I was... I couldn't get what I have actually expected... a date and a loving relationship. She couldn't reciprocate because of her abusive ex bad boy boyfriend.

As stupid and soo dumb as I was!!! I still texted with her and didn't let go. I became more miserable day by day... my attitude to her has changed fron extremely crushing/loving to super duper resentful😠... then one day, we'd argue a lot. Fighting back and forth. She insulted me and I insulted her back.

She was like: "I can't tell if you actually are the guy I was speaking to at the gym or with 5000 inside your body. You act like a whimp. Seek a psychiatrist"

I was like: "Do you have the ability to understand others emotions? Apparently not. What you have inside your head is your dumb @ss ex boyfriend". BEFORE THIS INCIDENT DO YOU KNOW WHAT SHE SAID AFTER WE HAVE TALKED ABOUT THE F-BOY STUFF? I ASKED HER: "though you hate those type of guys... would you want to switch sides eventually one day?"... so she said: "Yes why not. Haha"

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I was dating a girl for a few months and was really falling in love with her. She was really like nobody else I ever met. She had an almost hypnotic effect on me as well. One night I got caught up in it all and blurted out that I loved her. She just told me that I was crazy. A few weeks after that was Thanksgiving. The weekend after that she told me that she was busy with school and couldn't see me. I told her I was going to go to this bar in town and watch the hockey game. She showed up there with her old boyfriend from high school and she was obviously dumping me. I was completely blindsided. I got up and got in my car and drove away. A few minutes later I stopped the car and got out and puked.

JaxiCats · Accepted Answer

2 relationships ago to my current one. I was freshman in high school, he was sophomore in high school. We dated for 5 months then a red head came along, my anxiety ensued. Everything in me didn’t like this and then we break up. I emotionally go numb for about 3-5 months. He ignored me if I wanted to hang out or go on a date. Yet we continued to date. This girl supposedly made him send pictures of them hanging out and at one point he calls me while they hang out. We stop talking for the rest of the summer. School starts again and I make 2 new friends (one who becomes my boyfriend after that relationship and the other one who is now my current boyfriend of 1.5 years). Me and the boyfriend at the time constantly were texting each other, he kept asking if I loved him and whatnot. At this point my feelings are gone for him. Fast forward a month later I’ve developed feelings for the friend I ended up dating after this guy. I decide to honor an agreement me and him made that if one of us fell out of love we would tell the other. He makes fun of the guy I developed feelings for and an argument ensues. He wants his shit back I told him no, he burns and destroyed my art that I wanted back (it was my first art project on the year) he smashed it. He’s upset and wondering why he’s crying and I’m just like because you loved me and knew you fucked up. Ever since then I have an episode in my relationship where I feel like we need to break up or it’s not going to work. Even with my current boyfriend. I love him dearly and losing him scares me. When I’m not with him he’s not always on my mind like that one ex was. I don’t know if it’s healthier or not, I don’t know what I experienced was traumatic or not either.

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

Being r*ped as a teen, my mother not believing me and gaslighting me about it, my r*pist starting telling people that I had r*ped him so that he didn’t have to accept any consequences, all of my friends turned on me and became friends with my r*pist, everyone from my r*pists school started cyber bullying me, stalking me, following me in town and shouting slurs at me, random people would show up at my house and damage my property late at night for about 2 years after I’d been r*ped. I tried killing myself easily over 10 times but kept failing and landing in hospital. And this was only when I was 14-16. The worst 2 years of my life.

Not a typical heart break story but it absolutely shattered my heart, how fast and easily everyone turned on me, and how my own mother didn’t support me or be there for me, plus all the trauma and depression that it brought upon me.

Gent207-2 · Answer

I don't think one has happened yet to break or set a record.

The former record holder was my previous ex that I gave my vcard to who subsequently cheated on me multiple times even up till I was an hour away at uni. But hey she got knocked up and married a year later by her last lover. But that was after getting thrown out of her parent's house and totalling her car the same week we broke up after she admitted to cheating on me for the final time. (August 30 makes it 7 years ago).

Second place winner goes to the fall out I had with my best friend in high school over a girl. We became bitter enemies and then ten years later he offs himself. I never got the chance to tell him I was sorry. But I did go to his viewing and to my surprise hid family remembered me fondly.

Lucifer_01 · Answer

In short, recent event in my life which I can't forget in my life time.

My 8 year relationship with girl and my childhood friend

They both have sex in last week.

yeah, TRAUMA, SADNESS, DEPRESSION, DON'T WANNA LIVE ANYMORE, FUCK MY LIFE, NUMBNESS, AND HALLUCINATION.

JustiReno · Answer

I had a girl turn me off dating

she wasn’t feeling me n bounced after I nutted on her sheets

came back with her first love n had a baby … had to work with her for 2-3 years after n we would fight a lot, sometimes be chill

i feel bad about the way I treated her, but not about the way things worked out, it’s karma and learn something I didn’t know: needed

JohnK123 · Answer

Lol I liked a girl in 7th grade and she liked me back

And then she spread rumors that I wanted to date her and other stuff when I never asked her haha and then her friends hated me and then covid hit in 8th grade

and now she’s in my same high school 💀

TroyDT · Answer

Maybe I'm just shallow, but I have never had one. I am always philosophical about a relationship ending: If one of us is unhappy, then it is unfair to try to tether that person.

AsaKyo · Answer

He abused me for years, then threw me away, let something worse happen to me, became emotionally damaged and depressed and there you have it

jimmy2 · Answer

I took care of my love for 7years she got sick and she got trapped in her body. It was so sad to watch the death door open

MaxRobespierre · Answer

I am the one that does the heart breaking.

Jouth · Answer

my heart broke

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