How can he be so unbothered?

[Anonymous]

He cheated on me and left me for his ex after 2 years we were together. We basically lived together and did everything together. My heart still hurts from how he just left and didn’t care. Any little thing reminds me of him and how could he not care about how he hurt me? How does him driving past the food places we’d hangout at everyday not hurt him? I know it would hurt me. I am still hurting and trying to keep it together but I just don’t understand why he could be so fine. You would think he would at least have a heart for hurting mine. He’s saying he loves her like if he didn’t just break up with me 2 weeks ago. It hurts. His ex is a girl he met online so he’s never met her but picked her over me. They dated in 2017.

[ThrowawayRandom]

Honestly, I think the reason he seems so okay is because he has her as a distraction. Someone to talk to and do things with that keep his mind off of you. I guarantee if she wasn’t in the picture and you guys broke up he’d have a lot harder time


And I think keeping yourself busy and distracted is the only way to really get through breakups, you’ve gotta hangout with people and make new memories or else you’ll be stuck thinking of the old ones x that’s really awful what he did though, I’m so sorry.

[Guy13]

Ouch…love sucks sometimes. What can be said but Time heals all wounds 🤷🏻‍♂️