Unfriending an ex or hookup buddy?

[Anonymous]

Is it petty to unfriend an ex or hookup buddy on all social media? I’ve done this in the past and it’s such a relief but is it immature?

Petty/immature

Do it!

[Anonymous]

Not at all! You aren’t obligated to stay in each other’s lives, that goes for anyone.

[Asker]

It has been an on again off again thing for 3 years now… I just don’t think he is ever going to be what I want 😕 But I don’t want to seem “immature”.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, maybe there’s even a bit of hesitation to delete him as well, it really adds to that finality, which sucks when you still have some hope he’ll change. Coming from someone who’s made that mistake in the past tho, you’re doing the right thing by deleting him. After 3 years, he is who he is and you deserve someone better. Don’t wait around anymore or worry about looking this way or that way, just do what’s best for you.

[kylee2437]

Uhhhh not at all. You wanting a new life outside your ex requires you to delete them. It’s a form of protecting your privacy and moving forward.

[Guy13]

I would do the same thing as looking at her and then being reminded etc... It is unnecessary stress in life !!